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We cannot truly and graciously Mitigate Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts - - - without Describing-the-Core-
Alieinative-Conflicts between Domineering-Bullies and True-Lovers.

We cannot Mitigate that which is Not-Recognized, Not-Described and Not-Known in any clearly articulated way which 
is based on personal existential experiences which we have dealt with honestly in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues.

We cannot Mitigate Alienative-Conflicts among people whose Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Aspirations and 
Hopes have not been clearly described in coherent ways - - - Revealing their Core-Ideological-Conflicts.

We cannot Mitigate Alienative-Conflicts among people without describing what the Conflicted-People are Defending 
and Trying-To-Achieve - - - With-What-Costs To-Whom - - - and With-What-Benefits To-Whom.

Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters are defending and trying to achieve"

Dominance      Control     Greed     Hoarding   Concentrations-of-Power-and-Wealth - - - "Honorably for Good-Causes"

"Winning" Collusive-Games of Mutual-Self-Deception - - -  "Honorably for Good-Causes"

Appearances of Trust-and-Respectability - - -             "Honorably for Good-Causes"

Appearances of Having-Sustainable-Life-Styles - - -       "Honorably for Good-Causes"

Appearances of Having-Personal-Health-and-Integrity - - - "Honorably for Good-Causes"

Reliability in Successfully-Achieving-Prescribed-Goals  - "Honorably for Good-Causes"

"Self-Respect" and "Self-Esteem" with "Confidence"  - - - "Honorably for Good-Causes"

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                                               IN CONTRAST

True-Lovers-and-Neighbors seek to facilitate the Mitigation-of-the-Costs-TO-Vulnerable-Poor-People  because-of  all of the

"Achievements" of Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters   -> -> ->   who in Greedy-Ways

CONCENTRATE: Wealth, Powers and Advantages -> -> -> INTO-THEIR-OWN-GREEDY-HANDS - - - with NO-REGARD-OR-RESPECT FOR

True-and-Gracious-Affirmations-and-Demonstrations of the Long-Term-Sustainability of the following HONORABLE-VIRTUES:

Honesty      Open-and-Honest-Dialogues     Cooperation     Collaborations     Mutuality      Balance     Hospitality

Generosity   Personal-Integrities & Communal-Integrities   Sharing            Sympathy       Empathy     Sensitivity

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The ideals, values, principles, virtues, hopes  and aspirations the two contrasting groups of people - - - cannot be
reconciled with each other in any well-integrated-way.

To truly mitigate the conflicts between the-two-groups-of-people, we must deal honestly with the fact that the 
Domineering-Bullies cannot truly serve their-own-best-long-term-interests - - - by Affirming and Demonstrating their
own Disintegrative-Unhealthy-Incoherent-and-GREEDY: Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues and Grounds-for-Hope.


Domineering-Bullies-and-Mobbing-Mobsters are Systematically-Technocratically destroying their own "integrities"
and "health" in TRAGIC-WAYS - - - which they do not recognize nor understand!  Their TRAGEDIES are rooted in their 
own Simplistic-Misguided-Disintegrative-Ideals-Values-and-Goals. 


The Authentic-Mitigation of the Alienative-Conflicts between True-Lovers and Domineering-Bullies must deal honestly
with these hard facts of life!

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                                               In-Contrast:

Within Healthy-Intimate-Personal-Relationships,  the participants all appreciate what each other is doing - - - and
such appreciation is made clear to each other participant - - - Not-kept-secret!

Domineering-Bullies cannot in sustainable ways find and use - - - vulnerable people who will appreciate and share 
their appreciation for how Domineering-Bullies  RELIABLY-AND-REPEATEDLY:

1. Steal-from-vulnerable-people in unfair and unbalanced   interactions/conflicts.

2. Violate vulnerable-people's integrities   on a regular systemic basis within the laws conveniently "passed".

3. Deceive and Mislead their victims repeatedly    while Concentrating Great Powers and Wealth.

4. WIN their Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception   and thereby become   "Out-of-Touch" with reality.

5. Act unilaterally in perpetuating terrors, terrorism and terrorists in wars of many kinds.

6. Avoid   Open-and-Honest-Dialogues   with their victims and/or about how they themselves are perceived by their victims.

7. Are Self-Confidently   MISINFORMED, THOUGHTLESS, CONFUSED, ISOLATED, ALIEANTED and INSENSITIVE.

8. LACK EMPATHY AND SYMPATHY.


                           Be-Graciously-Together  within   Shalom's-Gracious-Ways!