KEYS **** Often the challenge to Young-People is to learn how to recognize-the-important-differences-between the following-reflexive-realities within-other-people with-whom they "might" evolve healthy intimate- and/or-sexual reflexive-relationships of diverse kinds and levels of intimacy. This is not a simple challenge! There is NO-ONE UNIVERSALLY CORRECT/BEST resolution of the challenge! The important- differences often pertain to: 1. Desires and inclinations of some people to seduce-vulnerable-people into alienative-relationships-of- vulnerability-to-domination. 2. Potentially Healthy-Intimate/Sexual-Relationships - - - governed by Truly-Mutual-Desires to Mitigate- Alieantive-Conflicts Within-the-Relationships - - - through Open-and-Honest Collaborative-Efforts in Shalom's-Gracious-Ways of Authentic-Love. 3. Inclinations toward the Life-Styles, Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues and Grounds-for-Hope - - - of Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters who are engaged in Conspiratorial-Dominations that Undermine- Distributive-Justice. 4. Inclinations toward Playing-To-WIN Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - and thereby Lousing-Touch-With-The-Essential-Realities of Civility-and-Civilization. 5. Inclinations to trust the REDEMPTIVE-POWERS OF GOOD: Coercion Domination Violence Repressions Supprressions Depressions Arrogance Dishonesty Pretense Shunnings Exclusivity Prisions Coalitions Concentrations-of-Wealth Greed Corruption Concentrations-of-Power Technologies Defenses Attacks Winnings Formalities Colonialism Genocides Wars Terrorism Bombs Guns Weapons Punishments Be-Together-in-Shalom