KEYS **** We all need to move beyond thoughtless: emoting, negativity, denigrations, contentiousness and alienative-conflicts - - - to: thoughtful, informed, gracious and coherent affirmations of how we' can learn-to-cooperate in behavioral augmentations-and-demonstrations of: Sensitivity Empathy Sympathy Kindness Generosity Hospitality Distributive-Justice Mutuality Reciprocity Balance Equality Sharing Openness Honest-Dialogues ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- It is never good to be totally detached-from and indifferent-to - - - the Alienative-Conflicts and suffering of tragically-abused poor-people. However, augmenting-our-preoccupations-and-concerns with-other--peoples-Alienative-Conflicts-and-Suffering - - - beyond our ability to be of any further help - - - is not good and is not sustainable. Here MORE is of no merit, and any self-esteem that is proportional to-the-excess - - - is tragically-destructive. Relax! Be-Together within Shalom!