KEYS **** To Mitigate Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts we must develop consensuses to Let-Go-Of and Shift-our-Attentions-Away-From: Negations Disagreements Arguments Debates Contentiousness Fighting Attacks Threats Invasions Violence Contentions Fears Anxieties Terrors Terrorism Terrorists Demands Commands Controls Complaining Objecting Interrupting Power-Concentrations Wealth-Concentrations Dominance Domination Weapons Technologies Defenses Invulnerability Superiority Hierarchies Rank-Ordering Winning Defeating Purity Loyalty More Getting Consuming Coalitions Territories Walls Fences Boundaries Dichotomies Polarizations Enemies Rights Wrongs Traitors Suspicions Doubts Excommunications Prisons Torture Constraints Distractions Entertainments Advertisements Luxuries Confusion Deception Pretentions Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception Distortions Saying NO Not-Cooperating Not-Listening Not-Coordinating Not-Collaborating ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- To Mitigate Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts we must Shift-Our-Attentions-Toward and Focus-Our-Attentions-Upon: Affirmations Getting-To-YES Agreements Consensuses Cooperation Colaboration Sharing Hospitality Building-Sanctuaries-for-ALL Sustaining-Sanctuaries-for-All Open-and-Honest-Dialogues Accurate-Reliable-Descriptions Sustainable-Life-Styles-and-Behaviors Being-Graciously-Together Being-Together-Within-Shalom Being-Agreeably-Intimate-Together Fulfilling-Covenants-Together Working-Collaboratively-Together Generosity Hospitality Welcoming Building-Trust Relaxation Giving Accepting Showing-Trust Resting Meditating Integrations Integrities Authenticity Coherence Letting-Go Transcending Liberations Being-Helpful Empathy Sympathy Sensitivity Attentiveness Listening Confirmations Paraphrases Harmonizing -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We may help each other by filling out a survey on which we each say where we believe that our attention needs to be focused, and what preoccupations to transcend and Let-Go-Of. It is then possible to tabulate the indications to show which respondents have similar foci; and which have contrasting foci - - - along with the levels of support for where attention needs to be focused. To facilitate this kind of helpful tabulation the survey document can ask: "How well will the following ways of shifting our-attention - - - help the vast majority of The-Crew of Space-Ship- Earth, to enjoying a Long-Term-Sustainable Life-Style for Future-Generations?" Each participant can then mark each of a set of possible new ways of focusing attention, to indicate what foci should be transcended, and what foci need to be augmented.