KEYS **** In each actual context of one of our own Alienative-Conflicts we need to be clear about TWO-MAJOR-REALMS of reality to be able to Graciously-Help each other to Mitigate Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts. I. What are the central realities which are in conflict with each other; e.g.: 1. The conflicting - - - Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, etc. 2. Who are the LEADING-Human-Embodiments of those conflicting - - - Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, etc. 3. Who are the primary-most-vulnerable-victims who seem to lack the power to Mitigate-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts? 4. Who are the apparently-primary-winners and beneficiaries of Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts? 5. Who are the people who are playing the most-dominate-roles in Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts? 6. Who are the people who are trying to Graciously-Mitigate-their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts? 7. What aspects of the Alienative-Conflicts are evolving, changing with the passage of time? 8. Are there significant provincial/territorial differences in the natures of the Inter-Related-Conflicts? 9. What are the differing-tacit Assumptions which are playing significant roles in the Alienative-Conflicts? 10. What are the differing-tacit Primary: Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, etc. in the Alienative-Conflicts? 11. What are the differing-tacitly-affirmed Alienative-Means-To-Salvation in the Alienative-Conflicts? 12. What are the explicit and implicit Conflicting: Scriptures and Interpretations-of-Scriptures and Scripts? 13. What are the Predominant Alienative: Tools, Techniques, Technologies and Technocrats? 14. What are the Predominant Means of Dominance, Repression, Suppression, Depression? 15. What are the Natures of the Conflicting: Ideologies, Paradigms, Governments, Religions, Sciences, Professions? 16. What Limited/Scarce/Coveted Resources are Playing-Central-Roles in the Alienative-Conflicts? 17. What Environmental-Changes/Evolutions are Playing-Central-Roles in the Alienative-Conflicts? 18. What Catastrophes have triggered Alienative-Conflicts? What events led to those Catastrophes? 19. What Candidates for Elective-Office are playing central roles in Augmenting-Alienative-Conflicts? How? II. What are the SHIFTS that need to take place in FOCI of: Attention, Affirmations, Negations, Denigrations, Dialogue? The following are among FOCI which may need to be nominated for More or Less or different kinds of attention. How can participants in Workshops on Mitigating-Our-Alienative-Conflicts sort them out for SHIFTS in attention? GIVE-MORE-ATTENTION? GIVE-LESS-ATTENTION? Honesty Pretentions Openness Secrecy Dialogue Contentions Listening Preaching Hospitality Winning Generosity Losing Balance Domination Mutuality Goals Colaboration Winners Cooperation Losers Communication Victims Covenants Demands Consensuses Commands Mediations Controllers Mitigations Coalitions Coordinations Competitions Rights Attacks Duties Responsibilities Letting-GO Threats Budgeting Defenses Setting-Priorities Invulnerability Who-Works-Together Who-is-Violent Confirmations Fighting Agreements Disagreements Getting-to-Know-Each-Other Getting-to-Suspect-Each-Other Articulations/Descriptions Debates/Contentions Personal-Experiences-and-Perceptions Labeling-Who-Is-Good Describing-our-own-Perceptions Labeling-Who-Is-Evil Framings Contexts Languages Linguistics Finite-Resources Human-Limits Environmental-Limits Open-and-Honest-Dialogues regarding Shifting-Foci-of-Attention - - - need to acknowledge the Full-Spectrum of Kinds-of-Realities ( objective, subjective, reflexive, etc. ) regarding which attention may shift-to; shift-from. Affirmations vs Negations Agreements vs Disagreements Virtues vs Vices Ideals vs Fears Shalom vs Anxieties and Terrors Mitigations vs Negotiations Questions vs Responses/Answers Issues-Dilemmas-Technical-Problems Efforts vs Works Coalitions vs Cooperative-Teams Ideals-Principles-Values-Virtues Winners vs Losers Conflicts vs Reconciliations Alienations vs Open-and-Honest-Dialogues Opinions vs Informed-Consensuses Inclusivity vs Exclusivity Integrations vs Polarization Destinations vs Journeys Excommunications vs Hospitality Generosity vs Greed Distributive-Justice vs Hoarding Graciously-Mitigating-Alienative-Conflicts is more sustainable than Authoritative-Determinations and Pronouncements!