KEYS **** Domineering-Bullies sometimes behave-as-if they have the right-to-unilaterally-create-and/or manage/control intimate-reflexive-personal-relationships. At issue often/ is what are the Significant ASPECTS of intimate-reflexive-relationships which Truly-Merit: Respect Honor Support Protection Admiration Tolerance Imitation Affirmations Clarifications Integrations Tolerance Imitation ======================================================================================================================== Should the above Honorable ASPECTS include the following kinds of REALITIES - - - - - - A. Standards-for-Conformity? B. Prescriptions for Proper-Behaviors? C. Proscriptions of Improper-Behaviors? D. TABOOS that are to be Enforced in Alienative-Ways - - - if they are NOT-HONORED IN-WORD-AND-DEED? E. Playing-to-WIN Many Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception? F. Competitions for the Concentration of More-Wealth-Powers-Influence than many-others have-now, or can-ever-have? G. Questions that Must-be-Answered with a simple YES or NO - - - in the Absence-of-Open-and-Honest-Dialogue? H. Questions that must NOT-NOT-BE-ASKED, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? I. Affirmations that must NOT be shared, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? J. Topics that must NOT be shared, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? K. Descriptions that must NOT be shared, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? L. Insights that must NOT be shared, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? M. Understandings that must NOT be shared, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? N. Realities that must NOT be near, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? O. Rituals that must NOT be observed, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? P. Traditions that must NOT be observed, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? Q. Behaviors that must NOT be observed, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? R. Perceptions that must NOT be acknowledged, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? S. Doctrines that must NOT be affirmed, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? T. Doubts that must NOT be admitted, must BE-AVOIDED and must BE-REPRESSED! HOW so? Wherein are we most-likely to be-together enjoying personal-and-communal integrities-and-integrations? Who is to say?