KEYS **** True-Lovers who seek to Mitigate Their-Own Alienative Conflicts and Domineering-Bullies who seek success in Concentrating More Powers-and-Wealth - - - see each other in contrasting lights of different-Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, etc. Hospitality versus Dominance Generosity versus Greed Liberation versus Control Authenticity versus Conformity Integrity versus Success Shalom versus Superiority Humility versus Excellence Modesty versus Arrogance Reconciliation versus Alienation Frugality versus Consumption What is viewed as honorable on one side appears absurd from the other side. What appears to be Sustainable - - - depends upon how successful we re in winning Our-Collusive-Games-of Mutual-Self-Deception with our supporters who are playing our games with us to help each other WIN! How well we learn from our experiences, perceptions and our points-of-view, depends upon how well we engage in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues with Diverse-Others of different experiences, assumptions, preoccupations, missions, vocations within the Life-Styles of Domineering-Bullies and/or the Life-Styles of True-Lovers. How SUSTAINABLE our Communities are - - - in reality depend upon how well we are able to Cooperate, Collaborate and Coordinate through Open-and-Honest-Communications/Dialogues - - - whenever we encounter Unexpected-Environments, Environmental-Changes and Alienative-Conflicts - - - with Incoherent-Simplistic- Idealists who have no Coherent-Foundations for: Cooperation, Collaborations and Coordinations through Open-and-Honest-Communications/Dialogues - - - with "different-people" in their neighborhoods of God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Space-Ship-Earth - - - with Finite-Material-Resources that are Keeping-Many-Domineering-Bullies from Getting-All-AND-More Than-what They-NEED - - - Amounts that are NOT-SUSTAINABLE - - - NOT for many and/or long; in God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Space-Ship-Earth. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Most, if not all, of the Alienative-Conflicts Between/Among True-Lovers and/or Domineering-Bullies - - - Revolve-AROUND the following-kinds-of-Questions/Issues within Reflexive-Relationships and realms of Being- Together in Shalom/Peace and/or within realms of "Redemptive": Violence, Coercion, Domination, Controls, Conformity, - - - How: Safe, Secure, Sustainable, Enduring, Robust, and Invulnerable can we be - - - while trusting the Life-Styles of Domineering-Bullies? Life-Styles of True-Lovers? While Trusting the Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Hopes, Aspirations, Intentions and Expectations of Domineering-Bullies? Mobbing-Mobsters? True-Lovers? Mitigators of their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts? What about - - - People willing to be Prudently: Vulnerable, Open-and-Honest, Intimate, Tolerant, Hospitable Generous? In the above issues and Alienative-Conflicts - - - much depends upon how fully and within what contexts diverse people are willing to Trust/Distrust Communications which are: Tacit Implicit Between-the-Lines Objective Reflexive Quantitative Poetic Symphonic Verbal Affectionate Sympathetic Empathetic Artistic Musical Mythical Parables Parabolic Hyperbolic Scientific Political Economic Greedy Hospitable Exclusive Inclusive Judgemental Loving Mathematical Analytic Logical Rational Reflexive Usually for the most Extreme-and-Pure Domineering Bullies - - - it is Absolutely-Taboo (Enforced by- Excommunications!)to Acknowledge, Engage-In, Tolerate and/or Hint-At - - - any of the above kinds of Communications, Intimacies, and/or Love in Being-Together-in-Shalom. Reconciliation is IMPOSSIBLE! Cooperation is IMPOSSIBLE! Colaboration is IMPOSSIBLE! BULLIES are focused upon achieving security through INVULNERABILITY by WINNING their COLLUSIVE-GAMES-OF-MUTUAL-SELF-DECEPTION - - - with each other - - - ( whom they do not trust! ) NOT-SUSTAINABLE!