KEYS **** To Graciously-and-Helpfully Mitigate-Our-Own: Alienative-Conflicts, Alienations and Misguided-Efforts - - - we each (as personal and communities) always need to Meditate-Upon-and-Discern-How-to-Fine-Tune the relative amounts of emphasis we place upon Our-Own Personal-and-Communal: Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Stories, Hopes, Expectations and Committments of diverse kinds. We need to do the above - - - as each of our diverse kinds of Environments-and-Relationships evolve-around-us; moment-by-moment, hour-by-hour and day-by-day. The job is never completed! No one constant prescription or proscription can be fitting in all times, places, situations, relationships and environments - - - as they are all evolving around us in interactions with what all humans and other creatures are doing.