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Domineering-Bullies do NOT: have, recognize, acknowledge or affirm - - - Any-Sound-Basis for saying how 
much: Power, Wealth, Luxury, Control or Domination will EVER-BE-ENOUGH to meet their needs.  In Just-
Being-A Domineering-Bully Each-One-Always-Want-MORE!  Each one's  GREED knows-no-limits - - - because 
Each-One's ULTIMATE-CONCERNS pertain to BEING-SECURE/INVULNERABLE - - - BY-BEING-THE-MOST: Wealthy, 
Powerful, Influential, In-Control and Well-Defended - - - Person-in-Contention.

Give the above basic-fact-about each Real-Domineering-Bully - - - EACH-DOMINEERING-BULLY-MUST-REJECT 
each-of-the-following-realities in order To-Behave-Consistently in keeping with their MOST-FUNDAMENTAL-
ULTIMATE-CONCERNS - - - WHICH THEY MUST-MOST-REVERE - - - regardless of any consequences!  THUS, the
following aspects of the Life-Styles-of-True-Lovers - - - are all ABSOLUTELY-TABOO - - - AVOID-THEM!
In the presence of any of the following, A Domineering-Bully's Cosmic-Egg Will-Crack-and-Collapse!
Each Domineering-Bully is on their own in Competition-against-each-Other-Domineering-Bully; AND
Each Domineering-Bully is Utterly-Vulnerable to the Certainty that True-Lovers-in-LOVE will crack their
Cosmic-Egg-Shell and so will Collapse their Cosmic-Egg which surrounds each Domineering-Bully.  TABOO!

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True-Lovers      True-Intimacies        Cooperation        Colaboration       Coordination       Balance            

Open-and-Honest-Dialogues-in-Love       Communications     Reciprocity        Hospitality        Mutuality          

Generosity       Trusting-Strangers     Trusting-Doubters  Trusting-Enemies   Trusting-Lovers    Diplomacy        

Mitigating-Fears Trusting-Diplomats     Mitigating-Alienative-Conflicts       Mitigating-Terror  Giving

Accepting-Others Being-Tolerant         Exploring-New-Kinds-of-Intimacy       Authenticity  Coherent-Ideals

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Domineering-Bullies are Trapped in the prisons they have made for themselves in-isolation-from-the-Cosmos of
True-Lovers - - - Protected by Superior-Abilities to WIN-COLLUSIVE-GAMES-OF-MUTUAL-SELF-DECEPTION that are 
the walls, floors and ceiling, doors and windows of GOOD-COLLUSIVE-GAMES-OF-MUTUAL-SELF-DECEPTION they win.
The keys for opening their prisons are the HIDDEN: RULES, BOUNDARIES, BALLS, GOALS, REFEREES, PLAYING-FIELDS,
SCORE-BOARDS, PLAYERS, SUPPORTERS, etc. of the games which must not be exposed by any form of advertisement
about the superior nature of the games which they are playing at the cost of The-Integrity-of-True-Living.

What does the world look like to a Domineering-Bully who is Winning COLLUSIVE-GAMES-OF-MUTUAL-SELF-DECEPTION?

How can we Mitigate-Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts and escape Our-Own COLLUSIVE-GAMES-OF-MUTUAL-SELF-DECEPTION?

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Domineering-Bullies need to accept help in learning-via-favorable-experiences - - - about the gradual-
processes of moving closer to the least threatening kinds of: neighbors, associations, friendships, and 
patterns of helpful cooperation, colaboration, coordination and communication - - - about meeting our most basic 
and healthy needs for coherent guidance in evolving healthy personal-relationships - - - in contrast to the
tragic ways in which domineering-bullies relationships revolve through efforts to succeed through focusing
upon: Prescriptions, Proscriptions, Conformity,  Superior-People, Inferior People, Judges, Police,
Punishments, and trying to be Invulnerable in Winning Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.  It is a 
major challenge to try to make a transition from Chaotic-Living into Integrative-Living together in Shalom!