KEYS **** True-Lovers as participants in Healthy-Intimate-Relationships - - are sensitive, sympathetic and empathetic - - - regarding each other's: needs, hopes, expectations, fears, anxieties, kinds of vulnerability, desires, hesitancies, terrors, etc. - - - True-Lovers avoid suggesting unilateral-actions, sudden-shifts, sudden-changes, etc. - - - that most Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters are unlikely-to-deal-with in ways that will-facilitate-the- healthy-evolution of honorable-sustainable-intimate-relationships. True-Lovers seek to support the Healthy-Evolution of their Whole-Community - -- within which healthy- personal-intimate-relationships can evolved in interdependent ways-of-shalom - - - that are mutually- supportive ways-of-LOVE.