KEYS **** Clearly, not all sexual-intimate-relationships are equally: healthy, integrative, honorable, sustainable, admirable, wise, prudent, etc. Given the above - - - upon the basis of what Coherent-Set-of: Values, Ideals, Principles, Virtues, etc. - - - can we most-reliably and long-term-sustainability discern how to graciously Mitigate-our-Alienative-Conflicts which are rooted at least in part upon different: perceptions, perspectives, points-of-view, assumptions, convictions, and beliefs about the roles which human sexuality can play in honorable-and-sustainable humane civilizations. When is it appropriate to be tolerant and forgiving in regards to the imperfections in actual human intimacies and sexual-relationships - - - - In-the-PRESENCE-of: Ignorance Prejudices Biases Lack-of-Experience Lack-of-Practice Confusion Arrogance Domination Violence Coercion Lack-of-Familiarity Lack-of-Knowledge Greed No-Desire No-Mutuality No-Cooperation No-Pleasure Lack-of-Understanding Lack-of-Integrity Envy Exclusivity Upon what grounds should we try to respond to the above kinds of questions? Why? When? Where? To Fulfill what purposes? On what grounds should the standards for judging imperfections in the realms of intimate-personal-relationships and human-sexuality - - - be significantly different than in other realms of human life? Why not honor the patterns in the most universally accepted grounds based upon wide-spread human experiences, perceptions, and thoughtful considerations in open-and-honest-dialogues about differing people's experiences, perceptions, perspectives and points-of-view. Are there any of these which should not be open to discussion? What grounds for thoughtful considerations should be excluded? Which of the following ideals, values, principles, virtues on the RIGHT should NOT pertain to any of the realms-of life on the LEFT? Realms of Life Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, etc. Sexuality Open and Honest Dialogue Economics Mutual-Satisfaction Meeting Humane-Basic-Needs Cooperation and Colaboration The Use of Technologies Mutual-Gracious-Consideration Consumption of Resources Long-term-Sustainability The use of Sanctuaries to provide safety Coherence and Authenticity Personal-and-Communal-Domains of Integrity Respecting Descriptive Natural-Laws that are Reliable Setting Overall Priorities Respecting the Integrity of Space-Ship-Earth Justly-Enjoying the Fruits-of-our-Labors Reverence toward Truly-Transcendent-Realities Enjoying-Shalom-Safely-Together Maintaining both Personal-and-Communal-Integrities-Together Being-Secure-Together without Domination Mitigating-our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts Sustaining-Civilization Sustaining-Civility