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    True-Lovers seek to facilitate the evolution of healthy-intimate-personal-relationships - - - which avoid 
    The High-Costs-Of:

 1. Addictive-Codependent-Relationships - - - that are usually-conflicted,
 2. Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - that can never be Truly-Won,
 3. Concentrations of Wealth and/or Power - - - that rarely bear sustainable-sweet-fruits,
 4. Systemic Distributive-Injustice - - - where who is complicit is rarely all that clear,
 5. Tragically-Misleading-Divergent-Expectations - - - taken for granted by alienated people,
 6. The Inhbition of Open-and-Honest-Dialogues - - - to keep Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception hidden,
 7. Sexually-Transmitted-Diseases - - - that are relatively easy to avoid, IF we-are-well-informed,
 8. Pregnancies not prepared for in healthy ways - - - that can be avoided, IF we-are-well-informed,
 9. Dangerously-Rapid shifts into premature risky intimacies - - - that can be avoided IF we-are-well-informed,
10. Imprudent and Untimely Trust - - - that can be avoided, IF we-are-well-informed,
11. The imprudent-rejection of healthy-risks - - - that can be avoided, IF we-are-well-informed,
12. The Risks of Alienative-Exclusive-Relationships - - - that can be avoided, IF we-are-well-informed,
13. The Risks of trying to Unilaterally-Control-Relationships - - - that can be avoided, IF we-are-well-informed,
14. The Risks of Coercively-Stanardized-Conventional-Relationships, avoidable; IF we-are-all-well-informed,
15. The Risks of Coercively-Prescribed-Relationships, avoidable; IF we-are-well-informed,
16. The Risks of Stagnant-Dying-Relationships, avoidable; IF we-are-well-informed,
17. The Risks of Intolerance toward new-integrative-rlationships; IF we-are-well-informed.

It is not a Simple-Thing to Avoid-Costs through Healthy-Reflexive-Educational-Efforts.  Such Healthy-
Reflexive-Educational-Efforts have often led to Contentious-Alienative-Conflicts with Domineering-Bullies
who want to Maintain-Unilateral-Controls over many Reflexive-Personal-Relationships in their communities.