KEYS ****

The Life-Styles-and-Instincts of Domineering-Bullies - - - lead them to match-and-exceed each other's
Alienative-Threats - - - in their escalations of their Clinging-To Alienative-Conflicts-and-Possessions - - -
Which at each step Augment-their-Instincts - - - by which they Gauge how Insecure-Threatened-and-Vulnerable
they each are compared to each OTHER.  The pride themselves on their abilities to Keep-Ahead-Of-Each-Other
WITH-MORE of what is needed to Maintain-Endlessly-Exponential-Growth Ahead-of-Each-Other in their own
Successful-Alienative-Conflicts with their own Superior:

Doubts         Suspicions    Distrust         Anxieties       Fears   Technocrats  Terrors       Paranoia    

Weapons        Forts         Fortresses       Defenses        Spies   Secrets      Alienations   Security  
     
Coalitions     Wealth        Calculations     Concentrations  Powers  Controls     Speed         Readiness

Committments   Technologies  Invulnerability  Intentions      Plans

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In contrast to the Instinctive-Alienative Life-Styles of Domineering-Bullies:

True-Lovers focus upon Regular-Daily-Practices to Match-and-Exceed  Each-Others: Practices of
 
Gracious-Conflict-Mitigations THROUGH:

Courtesies    Kindnesses      Hospitality  Generosity   Sensitivity     Empathy        Sympathy   Cooperation

Colaboration  Reflexivity     Systems      Analyses     Thoughtfulness  Mediating      Prayer     Diplomacy

Forgiveness   Reconciliation  Healing      Patience     Tolerance       Appreciation  Thanks     Giving

Always being willing to Match-Each-Other's-Willingness to be Prudently and Wisely Vulnerable within 
Increasingly-Intimate Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about How-Most-Helpfully to Cooperate-and-Collaborate 
in Helping-Each-Other to Assure that All-Members of the Crew of God's Astronomically-Tiny and Isolated
Space-Ship-Earth  Will-Have their Most-Basic-and-Healthy-Needs Adequately-Met - - - through Gracious-
Systemic-Distributive-Justice   on behalf of each Whole-Healthy-Community in LOVE - - - Matching each 
other's move -> -> -> toward being willing-together - - - to be Intimately-Vulnerable in LOVE.