Keys **** Domineering-Religious-Leaders have Conjured-Up Misleading-Descriptions of Terribly-Alienative-Punishments that they have said that God-Will-Inflict upon "Sinners-who-do-not-Conform" to the Commandments-Delivered by the Domineering-Bullies - - - who have been serving as Religious-Leaders. Such alleged "Terrible- Alienative-Punishments" have NOT been Accurate-Descriptions of any Natural-Consequences of any Actual- Behaviors of Real-People who have engaged in Naturally-Dangerous-Behaviors - - - that have generated Naturally-Disintegrative-Consequences - - - that Well-Informed-and-Thoughtful Prudent-People would Naturally want to avoid - - - in light of the Naturally-Disintegrative-Consequences. Rather, Religious-Leaders have often been Domineering-Bullies engaged in Alienative-Behaviors that were designed to Terrorize Faithful-Followers into Submission-and-Conformity as regards Unilateral-Injunctions about HEALTHY: 1. Mutually-Agreeable-Intimate-Personal-Friendships-and-Relationships, 2. Mutually-Agreeable-Romances and Sexual-Interactions/Integrations, 3. Mutually-Agreeable-Open-and-Honest Integrative-Dialogues, 4. Unauthorized-Mutually-Agreeable-Friendships-and-Assemblies, 5. Speaking-of-Truths about Excessively-Concentrated-Wealth-and-Powers, 6. Speaking-of-Truths about Dishonest-Leaders and Distributive-Injustices, 7. Speaking-of-Truths about Corruption-Generated by Concentrations of Wealth-and-Powers, 8. Speaking-of-Truths about People-WINNING Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception for Egocentric-Reasons. 9. Speaking-of-Truths about Descriptions which Cannot-be-Proven to be either True-or-False. 10. Speaking-0f-Truths about Descriptions which have Only-the-Pretense of being Meaningful-and/or-Significant. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Religious-Leaders will become more helpful when they Graciously offer: Open, Honest and Accurate Descriptions of Reflexive-Inhumane-Relationships that have involved predictably Tragic-Outcomes that reliably flow from Simplistic-Idealists; who Refuse-to-Become-Involved in the Mitigations-of-Their-Own-Alienative Patterns of: Conflicts Dishonesty Inaccuracies Predations Wealth-Concentrations Power-Concentrations Banishments Shunnings Rejections Invulnerability Unilateral-Actions Excommunications Violence Coercion Punishments Constraints Being-In-Control Inhibitions-of-Creativity Greed Contentions Exclusivity Arrogance Insensitivity Banishments Egocentric-Thinking-and-Behaviors Trying-to-WIN-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Many Religious-Leaders need to acknowledge their need to be willing to learn how to participate graciously in Helping-Each-Other to Collaborate/Cooperate in Mitigating-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts within Shalom. Such skills cannot be developed while still coveting the Egocentric-Advantages of the Life-Styles, Ideals, Values, Principles, and "Virtues" of Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters engaged in their Alienative- Patterns-of-Thoughts-and-Behaviors.