Some critics of the essays available at www.essayz.com may in a fair way ask if there is in the essays
an excessive amount of attention given to "Domineering Bullies".  Any well informed and thoughtful response
will need to compare the amount of attention given to Domineering-Bullies and related realities - - - with
how much attention is given to "True-Lovers", "Facilitators-of-Alienative-Conflicts", "Reconcilers",
"Diplomats", "Creative-People", Mitigators-of-Dilemmas", "Accurate-Descriptions", Shalom, Love, Intimacies,
etc.  Isolated counts of words within about 10,000 essays say little - - - in the absence of comparisons 
being made regarding counts of other complementary words that are relevant to other realities such as:

 1. The Foundations of Personal-and-Communal Integrities-and-Integrative-Processes.

 2. Clusters-of-Mutually-Supportive: Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Hopes and Aspirations.

 3. Being-Together in the Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom - - - Mitigating Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts.

 4. Being-Together Celebrating Love in the Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom.

 5. Refining and Benefiting from Thoughtful-and-Well-Informed Systems-Analyses of both Reflexive-and-
    Objective Realities-and-Relationships.

 6. Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about Identifying-and-Meeting/Fulfilling the vast majority of the Most-Healthy
    and Basic - - - Needs of most of the Poor-and-Vulnerable-People - - - in God's-Astronomically-Tiny Space-
    Ship-Earth.

It is not healthy to maintain - - - ISOLATED-AND-COMPULSIVE Preoccupations with: Negativity, Alienation, 
Addictions, Conflicts, Violence, Wars, Terrors and Addictions - - - to the EXCLUSION of making-and-
demonstrating AFFIRMATIONS of Gracious-Ways to help people to Mitigate-Their-Own-Complicities in such Tragic-
Realities within the contexts of their own Alienative-Conflicts which they need to learn to Mitigate through 
Cooperative and Collaborative-Efforts within Shalom's-Diverse-Ways Of-LOVE.

It IS-HEALTHY to work toward maintaining a balance between focusing upon: Domineering-Bullies initiating-and-
maintaining Alienative-Conflicts; and focusing upon: True-Lovers seeking to help people to Mitigate Their-Own 
Alienative-Conflicts.  We must identify what are the foci of attention - - - which need to be kept in balance.
Only then can an inventory be made to see if balance is being maintained!  There may be conflicts with more
than just two sides!  There can be three, four, five, six and more poles in Alienative-Conflicts.  Beware of
Over-Simplifications which lead to Tragic-Outcomes.  Then inventories to assess balance can become complex!