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The Effects, Significance, Integrity, Meaning and Importance of all human
relationships: personal, communal, intimate, alienative, economic, religious,
sexual, political, etc. - - - depend greatly upon how participants within them:

 1. Approach each other, and Leave each other.

 2. Make their Affirmations and/or Negations via various forms-of-languages,
    modes-of-communication, moods, modes, attitudes, expectations, etc.

 3. Respond to each other's languages, communications and actions in ways which
    include and/or exclude:
    a. Confirmations/Rejections/Tolerance as regards what they have perceived/received.
    b. Clarifications/Obscurations of what they have perceived/received.
    c. Respect for and/or Rejections of Contrasting-Life-Styles, Ideals, 
       Values, Principles, Virtues, etc. of:

		Cooperative-Calibrators			Domineering Bullies
		Mitigators of Alienative-Conflicts	Mobbing Mobsters
		True-Lovers				Unilateralists
		Reconciling-Diplomats			Power-Concentrators
		Healers-of-Tragic-Misunderstandings	Wealth-Concentrators
		Hospitable-Gracious-People		Greedy Hoarders-of-Goods
		Humble-Kind-People			Arrogant-Unilateralists
		Sympathetic-Empathetic-People		Technocrats
		Sympathetic-Empathetic-Parents		Addicts-and-Codependent-Supporters

4. Take into Consideration and/or Ignore Each-and-Every-Aspect of their Total-Environment
   and Contextual-Circumstances - - - in how they fulfill their Life-Styles.

5. Honor their own and each others' Environmental and Contextual Limits/Limitations and/or
   Dishonor them in efforts to get more than their fair share of what is within reach.

It is not helpful to systematically ignore or repress consideration of any of the above 
many ways in which people participate in, and/or avoid participating in, human relationships 
within their diverse contexts.

No one way is the only significant way that merits attention, nor are any few-ways the only
ways which merit significant attention.  Being-Exclusive is Being-Alienative.

When dealing with Alienative-Conflicts within the Mode of Reflexive-and-Objective
Systems-Analyses - - - we need to take care to avoid Systematically-Ignoring some of the 
most important information about:

 1. What realities are in conflict?
 2. What ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Hopes, 
    Expectations, Demands, Plans, Intentions, etc.  - - - are in Conflict with each other?
 3. What particular people are in Conflict with each other?
 4. The history of the evolution of the Conflict which is Present Now?
 5. What are the significant Complicit: People, Groups, Organizations, Institutions,
    Governments, Religions, Repressed-Minorities, Marginalized-Minorities,
    Segregated-Minorities, Poor-People, Vulnerable-People, Victims-on-Side-Lines,
    Excessively-Wealthy-People, Excessively-Powerful-People, Domineering-People, etc?

It is not helpful to systematically ignore or repress considerations of any of the 
above many ways in which people participate in, and/or avoid participating in, human 
relationships within their diverse communities.

No one way, is the only significant way, that merits favorable attention and honor; 
nor are any few ways, the only ways, which merit significant favorable attention and honor.

When dealing with Alienative-Conflicts within the Mode of Reflexive-and-Objective 
Systems-Analyses - - - we need to take care to avoid Systematically-Ignoring some of the 
most important information that we need to know about and give gracious attention to that
important information.

 1. What realities are in conflict?

 2. What Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Hopes, Expectations, Demands, 
    Plans, Intentions, etc. - - - are engaged in Alienative-Conflicts.?

 3. What people are in conflict - - - in association with other conflicts noted here?

 4. What is the history of the Present Conflicts and associated patterns of alienation?

 5. Who are the Complicit: People, Groups, Organizations, Institutions, Governments,
    Religions, Repressed-Minorities, Segregated-Minorities, Poor-People, Hungry-People,
    Homeless-People, Migrants, Displaced-People, Powerless-People, Victims-of-Tragedies,
    Victims-of-Natural-Disasters, Victims-of-Marginalization, Victims-of-Systemic-
    Distributive-Injustice, Victims-of-Domineering-Bullies, Victims-of-Mobbing-Mobsters?