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Relationships between and among Domineering-Bullies and True-Lovers are Essentially-
Asymetric in that:

 1. Domineering-Bullies approach True-Lovers as Objects-to-Be Unilaterally:

 	Manipulated	Controlled	Owned	Transformed	    Converted	

	Objectivied	Used		Abused	Means-to-Profit	    Raped		

 2. True-Lovers approach Domineering-Bullies Graciously as:

	a. People with whom to be reconciled in Cooperative-Ways,
	b. People to be Understood as People-in-Love,
	c. Potential-Participants in Open and Honest Dialogues,
	d. Potential-Participants in Intimate Relationships,
	e. Potential-Participants in Mitigations of Mutual-Alienative-Conflicts,
	f. Internally-Conflicted Evolving-Mortals,
	g. Internally-Conflicted Simplistic-Idealists.

 3. The Alienative-Conflicts of Domineering-Bullies with True-Lovers cannot be 
    Fully and Graciously-Mitigated without Domineering-Bullies Transcanding their
    Alienative-and-Mutually-Exclusive: Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Techniques
    Technologies and Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - that are Essentially-
    NOT-Winnable in any Meaningful-Sense.

	Domineering-Bullies-Ways are Essentially Disintegrative in Unilateral-Ways.
         Domineering-Bullies-Ways are NOT-SUSTAINABLE in-the-long-term.

               True-Lovers ways are Essentially Integrative in Cooperative-Ways.
               True-Lovers ways are Essentially SUSTAINABLE in-the-long-term.