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We will become able to help each other to Mitigate Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts - - -

Only-to-the-Extent that we Help-Each-Other-To - - -

 1. Let-Go of all our preoccupations with Being-In-Control of realities that No-One 
    Can-Control.

 2. Feel Secure in each other's un-pretentious-authentic-presence in Shalom's-Many-Ways.

 3. Know that we are each Authentically-Secure Being-Together within Shalom's-Many-Ways.

 4. Understand How-and-Why - - - "invulnerability" is not-the-key to being: secure, 
    safe,  satisfied,  healthy,  robust,  confident, enduring, sustainable, and free 
    to relax/sleep in peace.

 5. Understand How-and-Why - - - we-need-not be-fearful and always-ready to defend-
    ourselves - - - as Bullies-and-Mobbing-Mobsters try-to-do in tragically-futile 
    Alienative-Conflicts.

 6. Understand How-and-Why - - - we-need-not Play-to-WIN Collusive-Games-of-Mutual - - -
    Self-Deception - - - Which-Nobody-Can-Win - - - In-any-meaningful way!

 7. Understand How-and-Why - - - we-need-not Attempt-to-Be Superior-to-Other-People - - -
    Whom  we-do-not-know.

 8. Understand How-and-Why  - - - Being-Dominant undermines-the possibilities our-being-
    together - - - Truly: Secure, Safe, Satisfied, Healthy, Well-Integrated and free 
    to relax/sleep in peace.

 9. Have Visions-Of-Changes and Envision-Changes - - - which-enable US to lead-each-
    other into being-able to help-each-other - - - to Mitigate-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts.

10. Cooperate in Gracious-Authentic-Efforts to Move-Together in Shalom's-Many-Gracious-Ways 
    to Facilitate all of the above Transitions from were we are - - - into Shalom's-Ways.

11. Recognize, Acknowledge, Clarify, Describe and Be-Together Within Open-and-Honest-
    Dialogues about How-to-Deal-With the Complexities in:

    a. Why all of the above will entail: Obstacles, Frustrations, Fears and Terrors.
    b. Confusion, Doubts, Uncertainty, Negators, Contentious-People, Dichotomies,
       Polarizations, Bullies, Mobsters and Military-Industrial-Congressional-Complexes.
    c. Identifying-Gracious-Resources-and-People - - - who are willing to support - - -
       the above Gracious Kinds of Collaborative-Efforts.

12. Be-Together in Affirming     Words-and-Actions    Supportive-of-all-of-the-above.