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Healthy-Mourning is a Communally-Supported-Process of Coming to terms with a loss:
Intellectually, Rationally, Logically, Emotionally and Spiritually; ALL TOGETHER.

Healthy-Mouring is possible only to the extent that participants in the Mourning-Processes - - - 
are able to participate in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues  about the nature of the loss - - -
the emotional aspects of the loss - - -
the rational and irrational aspects of the loss - - -
and the ways in which the loss has threatened their own personal-and-communal integrities - - -
and has threatened their Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - -
to which they still cling in confusions and pain.

Healthy-Mourning is essential to Sustaining Both-Personal-and-Communal Integrities;
BUT True-Well-Integrated-Morning  Can-Threaten:   FALSE-FORMS of Personal-and-Communal - - -
"Coherence", "Unity", "Loyalty", "Power", "Success", "Propriety" and "Wealth" - - -

As-In Playing-to-WIN Collusive-Games of Mutual-Self-Deception - - - 
                                                    About what  IS,  and IS-NOT - - -

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Gracious, Healthy, Admirable, Well-Integratetd, Honorable, Sustainable and Reverence. 
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