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Domineering-Bullies often object to True-Lovers' behaviors- - - Because True-Lovers' Behaviors:

 1. Expose the Domineering-Bullies' Lack of: Authenticity, Integrity and/or Health in their
    Life-Styles, Behaviors, Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, etc. - - - as Articulated and
    Demonstrated - - - by Domineering-Bullies-Themselves.

 2. Make Domineering-Bullies feel: insecure, threatened, fearful, terrorized, not-in-control,
    unable-to-articulate their-grounds-for-objecting to True-Lovers' Gracious-Behaviors; which are
    Constitutionally-Protected-Behaviors.

 3. Include the use of Honorable-Key: Insights, Understandings, Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues,
    Attitudes, Approaches and Forms of Integrity - - - to Unlock-the-Chains with which Domineering-
    Bullies have Shackled-Vulnerable-People to the Domineering-Bullies' Life-Styles and Collusive-
    Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - so that people cannot Let-Go and Leave-their-Prisons.
    
 4. Free Diverse-People to engage Graciously in the Mitigation-of-Their-Own Alienative-Conflicts - - -
    which is exceedingly troubling to Domineering-Bullies - - - because Domineering-Bullies'-Life-Styles
    Make-Such-Gracious-Mitigations of Alienative-Conflicts - - - to be ABSOLUTELY-TABOO!

 5. Undermine the Pretentious-Rationalizations-of-Domineering-Bullies - - - who claim that only they
    have the rights to:  Control, Prescribe, Proscribe, Exclude, Excommunicate, Dominate and Banish - - -
    the poor, hungry, homeless and vulnerable people - - - that threaten their Dominant-Tranquility.

 6. Clearly-Articulate and Demonstrate - - - Coherent-Clusters of Mutually-Complementary-and-Supportive:
    Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Hopes, Aspirations and Visions - - - that can serve as essential
    foundations for Personal-and-Communal Mitigations-of-our-own Alienative-Conflicts in Daily-Lives.

 7. Undercut the Constant-Efforts of Domineering-Bullies to recruit-by-seduction more-people to be admirers
    of and/or victims of the Domineering-Life-Styles - - - and of their Efforts-to-Be-In-Control of almost
    all Wealth-and-Power.

 8. EXPOSE to Public-View the Essentially-Destructive-Core of Domineering-Bullies'-Efforts to:

    a. Attack the Core-Motivations-and-Integrities of True-Lovers - - - who are Truly-Together in 
       Love's-Many-Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom.

    b. Concentrate Wealth into their Own-Hands.

    c. Concentrate Power  into their Own-Hands.

    d. Concentrate Controls into their Own-Hands.

    e. Generate "Perfected-Conformity" within the Alienative-Conflicts of Domineering-Bullies.

    f. Generate "Perfected-Ideals" of Mutually-Exclusive-Kinds in Alienative-Ways-of-Dominating Each Other.

    g. Generate "Perfected-Absolute-Truth" which Violates LOVE'S-Integrity-and-Authenticity - - - within
       the True-Communities and Healthy-Intimacies of True-Lovers.

 9. Make clear that is not safe to trust Domineering-Bullies - - - because their Core-Purposes-and-
    Motivations pertain to: Stealing, Distributive-Injustice, Coercion and Being-in-Control in Unilateral-
    Alienative-Ways - - - in the absence of Open-and-Honest-Dialogue, Cooperation, Generosity and
    Hospitality.

10. Make-Clear that Domineering-Bullies' Core-Life-Style-Principles:

    a. Are incoherent; and generate increasing levels of overall-incoherence.
    b. Lack-Integrity; and decrease the presence of Integrity.
    c. Are founded upon distrust; and undermine the presence of Trust.
    d. Are born of destructive actions; and lead to the augmentation of destructive actions.
    e. Are not informed in honest-ways by the knowledge of the roots of alienation; and
       generate more alienation.
    f. Are rooted in greed; and lead people to be more greedy-and-alienative in Domineering-Bullies' Ways.
    g. Pertain to winning in Alienative-Ways; but NOT in Cooperative-Ways - - - for all of the 
       Crew of God's Astronomically-Tiny-Space-Ship-Earth - - - which is Essentially-Isolated from all
       Extra-Terrestrial Material-Resources - - - most-like those Terrestrial-Resources most-coveted by 
       Domineering-Bullies in the crew of God's Astronomically-Tiny-Space-Ship-Earth.
    h. Cannot Unilaterally-Generate-Security via-invulnerability; in the absence of true-intimacy which
       is mutually enjoyed - - - in balanced-cooperative-and-collaborative-behaviors; with 
       mutually accepted-and-enjoyed healthy-vulnerability.
    i. Make-it-Impossible for True-Lovers to Relate-to-Domineering-Bullies With-Integrity - - - because
       of the enduring ABSENCE of: Balance, Mutuality, Cooperation, Colaboration, Honesty, Open-and-Honest
       Dialogue, Distributive-Justice - and the ENDURING-ABSENCE of The-Mitigation-of-Alienative-Conflicts;
       due to the enduring efforts of Domineering-Bullies   WHO  OPPOSE The-Mitigation-of-Alienative-Conflicts!

11. Domineering-Bullies cannot on-their-own truly-resolve any conflicts in the Enduring-Absence of
    True-Lovers and/or of People who are Truly-Committed to Mitigating Their-Own Alienative-Conflicts
    - - - by Transcending the ALIENATIVE: Life-Styles, Ideals, Values, Principles and Virtues - - - of
    Domineering-Bullies.