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We cannot Graciously-Mitigate-our-own-Alienative-Conflicts without becoming aware of how

				 Our-Own and Other-Peoples': 

Assumptions	Expectations	Fears	 	Terrors	 	Injuries 	Diseases	

Affect many people's abilities to engage in various kinds of personal relationships:

Intimate	Cooperative	Conversations	Friendships	Sexual		Financial

Power-Sharing	Risk-Sharing	Wealth-Sharing	Hospitality	Reconciliations	Domination

Addictions	Codependency	Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception	Letting-Go

Open-and-Honest-Dialogues	Mitigating-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts		Diplomacy

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When we are Considering-Carefully HOW - - - 	Admirable	Honorable	Authentic	
and/or Well-Integrated - - - people and their relationships are - - - within the contexts 
of attempts to Mitigate-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - we all need to consider the full-
spectrum of-aspects-of human personal and communal relationships; for-example:

Formal		Informal	Contractual	Tacit		Implicit	Articulated	

Discussed	Affective	Subconscious	Overt		Covert		Public

Private		Hidden		Balanced	Emotional	Rational	Domineering

Submissive	Religious	Scientific	Quantitative	Qualitative	Reflexive

Addictive	Codependent	Inter-Dependent	Independent	Isolated	Integrated

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The Personal-Relationship between and among Domineering-Bullies - - - often Revolve-around
"Positions-Taken" in their Alienative-Conflicts and/or in their Own-Interpretations of Each-
Other's 	Statements	Writings	Behaviors	Absences	Neglects.

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Domineering-Bullies 	Rarely-Share-in-Common 	Any-Well-Integrated-Mutually-Supportive

Clear-Affirmations 	of:	THEIR-OWN	Ideals		Values		Principles	
Virtues			Perspectives		Assumptions and Approaches 	To-each-other
	
That-Are-Foundations    For-Our-Mitigating-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts 	With-Groups-of

				Typical-Domineering-Bullies.

How then can we facilitate the Mitigation of Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts with Domineering-Bullies?

We need to engage in Realistic-Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about this closing question!    Shalom!