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We cannot Graciously-Mitigate-our-own-Alienative-Conflicts without becoming aware of how Our-Own and Other-Peoples': Assumptions Expectations Fears Terrors Injuries Diseases Affect many people's abilities to engage in various kinds of personal relationships: Intimate Cooperative Conversations Friendships Sexual Financial Power-Sharing Risk-Sharing Wealth-Sharing Hospitality Reconciliations Domination Addictions Codependency Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception Letting-Go Open-and-Honest-Dialogues Mitigating-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts Diplomacy ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- When we are Considering-Carefully HOW - - - Admirable Honorable Authentic and/or Well-Integrated - - - people and their relationships are - - - within the contexts of attempts to Mitigate-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - we all need to consider the full- spectrum of-aspects-of human personal and communal relationships; for-example: Formal Informal Contractual Tacit Implicit Articulated Discussed Affective Subconscious Overt Covert Public Private Hidden Balanced Emotional Rational Domineering Submissive Religious Scientific Quantitative Qualitative Reflexive Addictive Codependent Inter-Dependent Independent Isolated Integrated ================================================================================================ The Personal-Relationship between and among Domineering-Bullies - - - often Revolve-around "Positions-Taken" in their Alienative-Conflicts and/or in their Own-Interpretations of Each- Other's Statements Writings Behaviors Absences Neglects. ================================================================================================ Domineering-Bullies Rarely-Share-in-Common Any-Well-Integrated-Mutually-Supportive Clear-Affirmations of: THEIR-OWN Ideals Values Principles Virtues Perspectives Assumptions and Approaches To-each-other That-Are-Foundations For-Our-Mitigating-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts With-Groups-of Typical-Domineering-Bullies. How then can we facilitate the Mitigation of Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts with Domineering-Bullies? We need to engage in Realistic-Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about this closing question! Shalom!