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Where are our Central-Tragic-Conflicts?   What are their natures?

Whenever Domineering-Bullies object to and/or fail-to-tolerate Open-and-Honest-
Communications - - - they generate Alienative-Conflicts and Patterns-of-Alienative-
Conflicts - - - by which they Exclude-Themselves-Form Sanctuaries that are built
by True-Lovers for ALL-who-wish-to-Enjoy them as Safe-Places for Open-and-Honest-
Communications, Love, and Healthy-Intimacies.

Domineering-Bullies thus make themselves insecure, fearful and vulnerable; 
because they have excluded-themselves from All-Safe-Sanctuaries for Healthy-
Intimacies which are the Foundations-for-True-Security-and-Relaxation-and-Re-
Creation through Reconciliations and the Mitigations-of-our-own-Alienative-
Conflicts.

Domineering-Bullies can Mitagate Their-Own: Insecurity, Fears, Anxieties and 
Terrors ONLY by Understanding-the-Above; and by Letting-Go of their Objections 
to and Intolerance of Open-and-HOnest Intimate-Communications Between-and-Among 
True-Lovers In-Love in the Many-Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom.

So long as Domineering-Bullies continue to maintain their objections-to and 
intolerance-of - - - Open-and-Honest-Communications Between-and-Among True-
Lovers in True-Sanctuaries - - - their Alienative-Conflicts cannot be mitigated 
by themselves or by anyone else.  They need True-Lovers-Help!  But, usually 
they cannot be honest about their needs.  What can Mitigators of Alienative-
Conflicts do to break the log jam?

The Tragedy is that there continues within Individual-Domineering-Bullies a
terrible conflict between their authentic need for intimacy that involves Open-
and-Honest-Dialogue - - - and their fears of the vulnerabilities that go go with
true-intimacies - - - to the extent that there is any open-and-honest-intimacy.

Our Central-Tragic-Conflicts exist within Individual-Domineering-Bullies - - -
as isolated persons; and as isolated-gangs, coalitions and communities.

The Gracious-Mitigations of Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts cannot-move-foward - - -
in the absence of our Openly-and-Honestly-Addressing where our Central-Tragic-
Conflicts exist, and what are the natures of our Central-Tragic-Conflicts
wherever they do exist and persist.

Domineering-Bullies do-not-know  How-to-Distinguish-Between; and 
                                 How-to-Deal-With the Differences-Between:

Healthy-Occasions-of-Vulnerability within healthy-intimacies; and in contrast:

Unhealth-Occasions-of-Vulnerability within "Violent-Intimacies" - - - 

because Domineering-Bullies usually have not experienced many occasions of 
the former, and mistake the latter for the former.

Domineering-Bullies are thus unable to Mitigate Their-Own Alieantive-Conflicts 
and fear to enter into Open-and-Honest-Dialogues wherein they might learn - - - 
what they need to learn.

To Mitigate-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts - - - we must find ways to help Take-
Apart The-Above-Log-Jam!