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True-Lovers Give-Themselves-and-Each-Other

Permission-and-Encouragement  To-Enjoy  Their-Own  and Each-Other's:

 1. Authentic-Presence.
 2. Open-and-Honest-Dialogues.
 3. Letting-G of Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.
 4. Letting-Go of Imposed-Repressions.
 5. Letting-Go of Imposed-Suppressions and Patterns-of-Intolerance.
 6. Letting-Go of Imposed-Depressions.
 7. Romantic Open-and-Honest-Relationships and Courtships.
 8. Intimations of More-Integrative Healthy-Intimacies-and-Sexuality.
 9. Transcendence of Domineering-Bullies Life-Styles-and-Ideologies.
10. Transcendence of Preoccupations with and Letting-GO-OF - - -

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Domination	Defenses	Myths-Affirming-Redemptive Alienative-Activities

Technologies	Technocracies	Military-Industrial-Congressional-Complexes

Winning and/or	Losing		In Alienative-Unilateral-Ways in any of the following:

Contests	Competitions	Contentions	Polarizations	Dichotomizations

Attacks		Battles		Coalitions	Economics	Military-Actions

Military-Industrial-Congressional-Complexes	Religious-Institutions/Congregations

Sexual-Competitions		Sexual-Abuses	Sexual-Addictions and Codependents

Patterns-of-Control		Conformity	Propriety	Prescriptions

Proscriptions	Demands		Commands	Obedience	Submission

Imposed-Standards/Formalities	Imposed-Truths	Imposed-Gifts	Imposed-Costs

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Central in every effort to Mitigate-our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts is the generation
of Clear-Consensuses about How-to-Describe the Roots-of-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts
and Clear-Consensuses about How-to-Describe Alienative-False: Ideals, Values, Principles
and Virtues which Generate-Confusion about the Roots-of-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts.

The Life-Styles, Ideologies and Behaviors of Domineering-Bullies-and-Mobbing-Mobsters
Generate-Confusion about the Roots-of-our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts.  We need to work
collaboratively in Clearly-Describing the Alienative-Processes by which such Confusion-
is-Generated and Maintained in Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts.

				Be Together in Shalom!