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Some people have tried to detect extra-sensory perceptions of objective-realities; and have not obtained 
clear-cut-evidence of such perceptions - - - that matches the reliability of objectively-known-sensory-perceptions.

A more difficult effort would be an effort to try to show that there are authentic extra-sensory-perceptions of 
reflexive-sub-conscious-communications between/among mutually-sensitive-people who do: coordinate, cooperate and 
collaborate in intimate-relationships which clearly transcend what well informed thoughtful-people believe could occur 
- - - in the absence of contemporaneous extra-sensory-perceptions.  By what standards can one decide if such a
finding is authentic; rather than rigged, wishful-thinking, and/or like the appearances of skillful magicians?

People who "buy-into" the Life-Styles-and-Foci-of-Attention of Domineering-Bullies and/or Mobbing-Mobsters - - - 
are not likely to be aware of most aspects of:

 1. Reflexive-Personal Intimate-Relationships,
 2. Reflexive-Personal-Communications,
 3. Reflexive-Personal-Interactions,
 4. Reflexive-Personal-Cooperations,
 5. True-Lovers Being-Together within Shalom's Many-Creative-Ways,
 6. The above suggested Extra-Sensory-Perceptions and
 7. People Truly-Mitigating Their-Own Alienative-Conflicts.

How are we to detect whether or not the failures of people to 
detect authentic extra-sensory perceptions are due mostly to:

 (1) the absence of extra-sensory perceptions; or

 (2) due to the dispositions of Domineering-Bullies and of People who have internalized many of the: 
     assumptions, attitudes, approaches, beliefs and dispositions of Domineering-Bullies and/or Mobbing-Mobsters?   

What kind of people should be trusted to carry out such an investigation - - - 
without bias?  Who can determine the most reliable response to this question?  
How can we know?

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The above are not purely academic questions.  There are implications for maintaining healthy human relationships - - - if
there are significant non-objective "resonance" between particular "gifted-people".

To the extent that some people, for whatever reasons, are more "in-tune" with particular other people who "resonate" with
them - - -  what is to be done when "Resonance" happen around Domineering-Bullies who expect to be In-Control of other 
people's communications-and-intimacies - - - and there are "forbidden-resonance" which undermine the possibilities of 
Domineering-Bullies being "Satisfactorily-in-Control" --- because "forbidden-resonance" leave no objective evidence of 
their presence.  "Resonance" can trouble Domineering-Bullies by undermining their ability to be "Fully-In-Control".  

"Resonance" can also trouble people who expect that their "Intimate-Relationship" will be "exclusive".  What is to be 
done if a person in such an "Intimate-Relationship" "resonates" with somebody outside the "authorized" "Intimate-
Relationship" which people expect to be "Exclusive".  Can the "Intimate-Relationship" be kept exclusive; with integrity,
in the known presence of any "resonance"?

Can an Exclusive-Intimate-Relationship be maintained with integrity - - - in the absence of any known "resonance"?

Can we with integrity - - - systematically avoid asking and responding to these questions in open-and-honest-dialogues?