RETURN TO recent.htm ESSAY-HYPER-LINKS True-Lovers: demonstrate, affirm and need-each-other's-affirmations - - - of their own-unique-forms-of Integrities and Integrative-Processes - - - through mutually-respectful-and-reliable Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about Being-Together-In- LOVE within Communal-Sanctuaries of Shalom's-Gracious-Ways - - - where there is No-Need to Demonstrate-nor-Affirm: 1. Domination, 2. Unilateral-Controls, 3. Alienative-Conformity, 4. Alienative-Conflicts, 5. Any Pretentious-Presence-or-Powers, 6. Any Concentrations of Wealth-or-Powers, 7. Any Form of Personal: Superiority, Purity or Excellence. True-Lovers feel-the-need-to demonstrate-and-respect their own-unique-forms - - - and-each-other's-unique-forms-of: integrity, love, and mutually-supportive gracious-dialogues - - - which are open-and-honest about all-different-kinds-of people's Authentic-Basic-Needs and respect for the Essential-Foundations-of-Civility-and-Civilization Denigrations, Polarizations and Dichotomizations play NO-ESSENTIAL-ROLES in facilitating-civility-or-civilization-with- integrity. However: Accepting-Mutually-Supportive-Truths and Accepting Integrations-OF-Mutually-Supportive-Truths - - - DO-PLAY- ESSENTIAL ROLES in Civility-and-Authentic-Civilizations. So-Also, Accepting Integrations-of-Mutually-Supportive-and-Complementary: Ideals, Values, Principles, Virtues, Hopes, Aspirations, Visions, Dreams, etc. - - - DO-PLAY-ESSENTIAL-ROLES in Civility-and-Authentic-Civilizations. However: Accepting-and/or-Tolerating Forms-of: Exclusivity, Shunnings, Excommunications, Banishments, etc. - - - PLAY-NO- ESSENTIAL-ROLES in Civility-and-Authentic-Civilizations.