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Being-AUTHENTIC-TRUE-LOVERS is a continuing-process; rather than a "state" or "status" that is "achieved".

THEY ARE ENGAGED IN an enduring-process of Being-Graciously-Together in Shalom's-Many-Diverse-Ways of Open-and-Honest-
Dialogue about ALL-PARTICIPANTS':

 O. Within God's-Crew of God's-Astronomically-Tiny Space-Ship-Earth with finite supplies of Essential-Material-Resources.
 
 1. Basic-Essential-Humane-Needs as they evolve, are met, change, grow, etc.

 2. Evolving-Alienative-Conflicts - - - Among their Evolving: Ideas, Ideals, Values, Principles, Perspectives, Points-of
    View, Assumptions, Beliefs, Convictions, Risks, Fears, Terrors, Virtues, Vices, etc.

 3. Misunderstandings, Blunders, Mistakes, Errors, Tragedies, Accidents, Catastrophes, Friendships, Intimacies, Fears,
    Terrors, Risks, etc.

 4. Disappointments, Hurts, Alienations, Reconciliations, Cooperations and Collaborations.

 5. Open-and-Honest-Dialogues with each other about people who do NOT understand them and/or fear them because of all of
    the above aspects of their lives.

 6. Need for both Intimacy-and-Private-Times within which to gain new: Perspectives, Insights, Experiences and 
    helpful mutual understandings.

 7. Experiences of: Domination, Mobbing, Mobsters, Anxiety, Fears, Anxiety, Terrors, Violence, Conformity, Creativity,
    Revelations, Visions, Dreams, Desires, Pleasures and Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.
 
 8. Objective-and-Reflexive Systems-Analyses of their: Contexts, Environments, Opportunities, Risks, Threats, Ideals,
    Values, Principles, Concerns, Friends, Intimate-Relationships, Taboos, and Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.

 9. Needs for External-Perspective upon their own relationships as seen/experienced by "outsiders" and their needs to 
    seek advice which is worthless if it is not sought-and-asked for in gracious and prudent ways.

10. Needs to recognize, acknowledge and describe all participants": limitations, limits, constraints, prejudices, biases,
    provincialisms and remaining realms of risky deficiencies within each of them and within each of their relationships.