RETURN TO recent.htm ESSAY-HYPER-LINKS From the perspective of the Life-Style of Domineering-Bullies; the Personal-Relationships which involve True-Lovers are inherently suspect, because True-Lovers: 1. Do-not-honor the secret-rules-and-taboos of the Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception which are the essential- sure-foundations of the Life-Styles of Domineering-Bullies. 2. Do-not-honor the Domineering-Bullies' Myths which affirm the Redemptive-Powers of: Violence, Coercion, Punishments, Prison-Training, Shunning, Banishments, Excommunications, Unilateral-Commands-and-Demands, Wealth-Concentrations and Power-Concentrations - - - in the service of Their-god. 3. Do-not-honor the Domineering-Bullies' characterizations of: Good-People, Evil-People, Superior-People, Inferior-People, Transcendent-Powers, Angels, Devils and/or of Their-god as Omni-Everything: Omnipotent, Omniscient, Omni-Present --- Just-Like-Them. 4. Do-not-honor Domineering Bullies' systems of: Ethics, Morality, Proprieties, Hierarchies and Rank-Ordering-of-People --- done Unilaterally according to the Principles of the Domineering-Bullies'-Privileged-Life-Style.