RETURN TO recent.htm ESSAY-HYPER-LINKS


Healthy-True-Lovers wander-comfortably-back-and-forth across many 
conventional (but fuzzy) boundaries between "proper" and "improper" 
kinds-and-levels of intimacy --- because the Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom/Love 
transcend the creations and the integrities of boundaries-of-propriety --- 
as they are defined by Domineering-Bullies.

It is Domineering-Bullies who carry the most concerns about Boundaries-
of-Propriety; because they have the most to gain or lose in terms of 
their "proper" management of respect for their boundaries.

Domineering-Bullies have Egocentric-Concerns regarding the profitable-
management of Boundaries-of-Propriety.  In our relationships with 
Domineering-Bullies we must always keep this reflexive-fact in mend.  
Be-Aware and Beware!

Healthy-True-Lovers Engage-in-Reflexive-Systems-analyses which often:

1. Evolve within Personal-Relationships based upon: Honoring, Respecting 
and Being-in-Open-and-Honest-Dialogue with Whole-Person to Whole-Person  
Gracious-Relationships.
 
2. Involve seeking to Help-People to Mitigate-their-Own Alienative-
Relationships and Alienative-Conflicts.

3. Honor the Present-Communal-and-Personal Integration-Processes-and-
Integrities.  Here "Present" pertain to a person being "authentically 
present", and also pertains to "now-in-time."

4. Avoid-and-Transcend Unilateral-Manipulative-Procedures of Alienative: 
analysis, understanding, prediction, expectations, planning, management 
and control.   

                         (c) 2009 by Paul A. Smith in      
  www.essayz.com       Search for Integrity and Honesty        
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)