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The Tools-for-Control which Domineering-Bullies most often use ---
tend toward generating: Distrust, Suspicion, Fears, Resentment, 
Anxiety, Terror, Terrorism and Alienation --- among competitors 
for: security, safety, invulnerability, tranquility, health, 
integrity, shalom, love, intimacy, etc.

Domineering-Bullies who are in-competeition with each other, tend 
to cooperate in destroying what they most need; i.e.: mutual-trust,
mutual-respect, mutual-cooperation, and mutual-love.

Domineering-Bullies tend to generate Cultures-of-Scarcity regarding
what is most needed for Personal-and-Communal Integrations-and-
Integrities --- thus augmenting tendencies to Concentrate-Mere-
Symbols-of-Success in Alienated-Isolation.

Domineering-Bullies cannot as Bullies Concentrate what they most need: 
Trust, Security, Safety, Tranquility, Health, Integrity, Shalom, Love, 
Intimacy, etc. --- because those realities cannot be controlled or 
manipulated.

The Truly-Essential-Realities are destroyed by efforts to unilaterally
control, manipulate, regulate or concentrate and/or preserve them for
a select superior few people.  

The Truly-Essential-Realities are Truly-Reflexive-Realities which 
no mortals can control, manage or dominate --- as some people control, 
manage and/or dominate Lifeless-Objects which rarely enter into meaningful
Truly-Reflexive Intimate-Personal-Relationships with True-Lovers in 
LOVE.
                         (c) 2009 by Paul A. Smith in      
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