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Course Keys**** Flexible Glogal Guidelines for-healthy-life-styles-and-relationships are not designed for Enforcement-of-Any-Kind, by any kind of people. Such guidelines are helpful only if they are vuluntarily internalized through volunatry participation in Open-and-Honest-Dialouges with people who have learned how to embody and affirm the guidelines within their own daily lives, relationships, work and extended family lives. Such guidelines cannot be internalized: thoughtlessly, submissively, resentfully, instantly, via coercion, via threats and/or with thoughts of rebellion. Thus Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters cannot lead others in the processes of helpfully internalizing such Flexible-Global-Guidelines. Flexible-Global-Guidelines for healthy-life-styles focus upon Global-Affirmations of, and the Enbodyment-in-Daily-Relationships of: 1. Open-and-Honest-Dialogues and Mutually-Confirmed-Understandings thereof, 2. Helping each other to have their essential basic humane needs met, 3. Integrative and Mutually-Satisfying Cooperative-Activities; 4. The Global-Mitigation of Alienative-Conflicts of all kinds; 5. Reconciliations of old Patterns of Conflicts, Alienation, Resentment, Anger and Revenge; 6. Traditions of Wise and Prudent: Tolerance, Generosity and Hospitality; 7. Letting-Go of Knowledge-of-Who-Is: Evil, Good, Superior, Inverior or Nearest-to-God; 8. Letting-Go of Hopes for: Invulnerability, Perfection and/or Domination; 9. Letting Go of Hopes for concentrations of Wealth, Power and Influence for Self-and-Friends; 10. Letting Go of Hopes of WINNING Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception!