True-Lovers are integrative-creatures of communal-sanctuaries --- within which they are free-to-be graciously-together sharing-the-benefits-and-risks of being safely-engaged in the risky-intimacies of open-and-honest-dialogues about the greatest concerns of each different-and-vulnerable-person in the communal-sanctuaries. Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters are Destructive-Creatures of Alienative-Conflicts among Tragically-Internalized, Mutually-Incompatible and Absolute-Unilaterally-Imposed:

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