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Domineering-Bullies whose Life-Styles evolve The-Domination-of-People's:
Agendas, Priorities, Ideas, Ideals, Values, Hopes, Aspirations, Possessions,
Territories, etc. --- are prone to think in terms of Ownership-and-Management---
of People-and-Personal-Relationships in Unilateral-Utilitarian-Useful-Ways ---
to Concentrate Wealth-and-Power into their Superior-Hands.

To Domineering-Bullies --- Personal-Relationships are NOT WELL-INTEGRATED REALITIES
that entail:

 1. Open-and-Honest-Dialogue,
 2. True-Intimacies with their many essential risks,
 3. Letting-Go of Trying-to-Win Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception via HIDDEN-RULES,
 4. Well-Integrated-Realities which cannot be controlled by any person or group,
 5. Transcending Domineering-Bullies' Life-Styles and/or Taboos,
 6. Any reverence for any Transcendent-Reality --- because there is no Transcendent-Reality,
 7. Trusting each human to grow in: sympathy, empathy, generosity and hospitality within Love,
 8. Being-Graciously-Together in Shalom's-Many-Gracious-and-Diverse-Ways-of-LOVE,
 9. Mutual: Interdependence, Respect, Cooperation, Colaboration, Sensitivity, Empathy and Sympathy;
10. Mutual: Generosity and Hospitality in the Balanced-Ways-of-Shalom.