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To Graciously help to Mitigate their Own Alienative-Conflicts, the participants and
victims in the conflicts need to:

 1. Clarify their own: Ideals, Values, Virtues, Purposes, Intentions, Goals, Hopes,
    Aspirations, etc. - - - with each other and confirm understandings through
    confirmed paraphrases of the initial clarifications.

 2. Engage in frequent and regular Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about each other's
    perspectives.

 3. Become personally acquainted with each other's lives, trials and tribulations.

 4. Describe to each other their impressions of each other.

 5. Describe to each other how they perceive their Alienative-Conflicts.

 6. Suggest they believe can become common ground on which to work on Mitigations.

 7. Describe to each other their respective perceptions of each other's perspectives.

 8. Describe what they think/feel are each other's motivations and seek confirmations
    of the accuracy of those descriptions.

People cannot cooperate with each other in efforts to Mitigate Their-Own Alienative-
Conflicts - - - so long as they are un-informed and/or mis-informed about the above
reflexive realities - - - as perceived and described by each other.

Domineering-Bullies have troubles in cooperating with others in efforts to Mitigate
Their-Own Alienative-Conflicts - - - because Domineering-Bullies have a hard time
being Open-and-Honest with each other about their own reflexive-realities and any
descriptions of their own reflexive-realities - - - which they feel threaten their
thin-shells of Invulnerability inside their thin-shelled   Cosmic-Egg   shells which
they desperately protect from inside; so that they will not crack and reveal what is 
inside.