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   With what kinds-of-people do True Lovers-Bond?
AND
With what kinds-of-people do Domineering-Bullies-Bond?

Tragically - - - Each kind Bonds with their Own-Kind!

BUT

The Kinds-of-Bonds differ, depending upon who is involved!

Domineering-Bullies "bond" only with other Domineering-Bullies 
who are In-Competition-with-them but yet they are "willing" to:

1. Try-to-WIN Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.

2. "Confirm" the Myths that "affirm" the "Redemptive-Powers" Of:

Greed      Violence       Coercion     Punishments    Exclusivity    Excommunications..

Concentration-of-Wealth   Concentrations-of-Powers    Egocentric-Living-With-Wealth....

Trusting-The-Economy      Minimizing-Our-Risks/Costs  Promoting-Exponential-Growth.....

Trusting-The-Economists   Maximizing-Our-Profits      Trusting-Hierarchical-Structures.

Trusting-Cast-Systems     Trusting-Master-Slave-Ties  Repressing-Healthy-Sexuality.....

Repressing-Sexual-Knowing Repressing-Risky-Intimacy   Managing-LOVE'S-Risky-Intimacies.

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In-Great-Contrast:

True-Lovers bond only with others who are willing to Be-Together in Shalom's Many-
Gracious-Ways-of-Love - - which Transcend and Mitigate-the-Alienative-Conflicts that
are inherent in the Life-Styles-and-Ideologies of Domineering-Bullies - - - who are
willing-to-Sacrifice ALL of the Essential-Foundations of both Personal-and-Communal
Integrities-and-Processes-of-Integration; SUCH AS:

Kindness                        Hospitality      Inclusivity        

Reconciliations                 Generosity       Gentleness       

Distributive-Justice            Power-Sharing    Cooperation        

The Common-Communal-Good        Sharing Risks-and-Costs-Honestly

Emphasizing Affirmations        Affirming Long-Term-Sustainable-Life-Styles

Conserving Limited-Pure-Material-Resources in God's Isolated Space-Ship-Earth.

Affirming Inclusive Social-Integrations of People with all kinds of authentic needs.

Affirming Mutually-Agreeable Healthy-Intimacies among True-Lovers in LOVE.
 
Letting-Go of Alienative-and-Unwinable  Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.

Sharing Knowledge about the nature of Healthy-Intimacies-with-their-Essential-Risks. 

Sharing Knowledge about the nature of Healthy-Sexual-Integrations-and-Integrities.

Sharing Knowledge about how to help people Mitigate-Alienative-Conflicts-with-Bullies.

Building Sanctuaries for ALL-of-the-Crew of God's Astronomically-Tiny Space-Ship-Earth.

Enjoying Open-and-Honest-Dialogues with ALL-of-the-Crew of God's  Space-Ship-Earth.

Enjoying Comprehensive Distributive-Justice throughout ALL of Tiny-Space-Ship-Earth.

Letting-Go-of   Compulsive-Preoccupations   with   Prescriptions-and-Proscriptions.