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Different-People send-and-receive meanings in messages in different ways, both intended
and not-intended.

Some people focus heavily, if not exclusively, upon:

 1. Objective-Facts,
 2. Literal-Meanings of statements,  spoken or written.
 3. Objective-Descriptions of relationships and interactions, objective or personal.
 4. Reflexive-Descriptions of relationships and interactions, objective or personal.
 5. The significance of who sent and/or delivered a message, when, where, why.
 6. The intentions of the sender or transmitter of a message.
 7. Some obviously intended coded meaning discerned in a message as received.
 8. What is present "between-the-lines" of a message as received.
 9. The reason for not receiving a particular message.
10. The reason for a person present not communicating any message in any clear way.

Often the above kinds of "realities" play significant roles in our Alienative-Conflicts.

To Graciously-Mitigate our OWN Alienative-Conflicts we may need to deal openly and
honestly with the above kinds of "realities".  How can we best do that?