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Many "Personal-Relationships" are "Games-that-People-Play" within the overall-context-of:

 1. Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception --- which CANNOT BE WON!
 2. Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Domination -- which CANNOT SUCCEED!
 3. Alienative-Conflicts over "Getting-Ahead" -- which CANNOT Get-Ahead!
 4. Alienative-Codependent "Intimate-Relations"  which CANNOT Be-Intimate!
 5. Alienative-Codependent-Conflicts             which CANNOT Be-Resolved by Participants!
 6. Pretending to Transcend the Real-Limitations of Mortals and God's Astronomically-Tiny-Space-Ship-Earth!
 7. Pretending that there will Always-Be-More-Resources  Available-for-us-to-CONSUME AT-WILL!
 8. Pretending that without-limit MORE-is-always-BETTER  - - - even when resources are being Exponentially-Exhausted.
 9. Pretending that "The-Economy" will always make the best decisions about "What-is-Good" and "What-is-Trust-Worthy".
10. Pretending that "The-Economy" is a reliable "OBJECTIVE-REALITY" rather than "Our-Reflexive-Views-of-Each-Other".

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Our "Personal-Relationships" which are EMBEDDED within Our "Games-that-People-Play" within 

Our "Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception"  - - - Have very little in common with:

True-Lovers   Being-Together   in the Many-Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom   within the many

Communal-Sanctuaries   that are Built-and-Maintained  By-True-Lovers   FOR-ALL

Who truly-desire to Mitigate-Their-Own Alienative-Conflicts  and consequent  Patterns-of-Alienation.

NOW is always the time to LET-GO of the Alienative-Traditional-WAYS of Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters among US.