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Healthy-Intimate-Relationship are mutually desired by the authentic-participants who are involved in Healthy-Intimate-
Relationships.

In the absence of a person who has been involved in a Whole-Healthy-Intimate-Relationship - - - DESIRING-TO-CONTINUE-
THEIR-INVOLVEMENT; that Whole-Healthy-Intimate-Relationship is not likely to endure as it is in any sustainable way.  
It will Cease-to-Exist as The-Whole-Which-The-Intimate-Relationship was.  Relationships will change.

Some participants may continue to be intimately involved with each other in some changed ways; and they may play-
collusive-games-of-mutual-self-deception to-the-effect that the previous Whole-Healthy-Intimate-Relationships still
exists - - - when it does not still exist.   Such dishonest efforts are tragically-futile; and the intimacy is
undermined by their dishonesty.  The "whole" is no longer "whole" with integrity.

In the light of the above facts of life - - - Healthy-Intimate-Relationships endure in sustainable ways - - - only as 
long as all of those who are involved therein, persist in encouraging each other to be authentically involved as equals 
- - - in balanced-mutually-satisfying  equal-partners  in their  Whole-Well-Integrated-Relationship.

In the light of the above - - - Healthy-Intimate-Relationships do NOT involve as Participants-Within or Controllers-
Outside - - - people who persist in BEING:

Dishonest     Domineering-Bullies       Mobbing-Mobsters          Concentrators-of-Wealth      Concentrators-of-Power

Pretentious   Addicts-of-Any-Kind       Codependent-Supporters    Unbalanced-Extremists        Alienate-Isolated

Insensitive   Intolerant                Not-Empathetic            Not-Sympathetic              Not-Hospitable

Greedy        Not-Gracious              Not-Forgiving             Players of Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.

The above realities of life do not exclude the possibilities of Healthy-Intimate-Relationships evolving dynamically in
Mutually-Agreeable-and-Satisfying-Ways.  Satisfactory evolutions are possible, normal and healthy - - - so long as the
change is mutually agreeable and desired in due consideration thereof by those involved in the Health-Intimate-Relation-
ships that are evolving to the satisfaction of all participants.  The participants may not be able to satisfy Domineering-
Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters who persist in trying to fulfill their disintegrative and unsustainable life-styles.