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True-Lovers   Bring-Together   their-own-authenticity;   rather-than    unilateral-demands    against-unilateral-needs.

True-Lovers-Together do NOT Create-Alienative-Conflicts because of uncoordinated-demands or uncoordinated-needs - - -
which combine in Alienative-Conflicts.

True-Lovers Come-Together in Shalom's-Many-Diverse-Gracious-Ways; rather than in Domineering-Bullies'-Unilater-Conflicted-
Ways Of-Alienating-Each-Other.

Authentic-True-Lovers   Come-Together   in Creative-New-Ways  which are not just a sum-total of any Original-Unilateral:
demands, wants, desires, hopes, expectations, requirements, etc. - - - In Any-Unilateral-Ways.

True-Lovers are   Creative-in-Authentic-Ways-of-Shalom  - - -  Rather than    Destructive in Domineering-Bullies'-Ways.

True-Lovers'-Relationships are about Gracious-Processes-in-Shalom's-Many-Mutually-Complementary-Ways - - - Rather than
about Unilaterally-Being-Individualists   In-Alienated-Isolation   - - -   OVER-AGAINST-EACH-OTHER-IN-LONELY-GREED!

True-Lovers'   Being-Together   - - - is not predictable in terms of their Individualistic-Unilateral-Beings - - - Alone 
with their own UNILATERAL: Assumptions, Attitudes, Perspectives, Wants, Needs, Demands, Convictions, Absolutes, Greed,
Certainties, etc.

True-Lovers   are being about exploring what they can Become-Together; not about what they have been in isolation before
they met in any Cooperative-Ways-of-Shalom-in-LOVE.  They Cooperate/Collaborate to meet   Each-Other's   And   Their-Own 
Most-Basic   In-Common-Needs.

True-Lovers   Are-Being-About   exploring what they  Can-Become-Together;  NOT about what they Were-In-Isolation; before 
they met in the   Many-Cooperative-Ways-of-Shalom.