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People: admire, honor, respect, imitate and work-with each other for many contrasting reasons - - - and with many
different kinds of outcomes for them, for their communities, and for the relationships among them all.
People's perceptions of and experiences within the above processes and relationships - - - may be coherent and/or
may be incoherent, integrative and/or disintegrative, cooperative and/or contentious. It all depends upon what kinds of
people they are - - - deep within their hearts!
People's processes and relationships are: robust, sustainable, coherent, healthy --- or NOT; depending upon how well
they affirm and demonstrate the following kinds of behaviors as honorable: ideals, values and virtues; within coherent
combinations and permutations of priorities:
HEALTHY-KINDS-OF-REALITIES NOT
-Healthy-Kinds-of-Realities
Honesty Pretense
Cooperation Domination
Hospitality Greed
Generosity Hoarding
Sharing Concealing
Openness Secrecy
Kindness Bullying
Colaboration Domination
Offerings Demands
Suggestions Commands
Demonstrations Prescriptions
Distributions Concentrations
Integrations Fighting-Contentiously
Welcoming Excommunicating
Accepting Alienating
Including Excluding
Integrating Purifying
Facilitating Ordering/Commanding
Dialogues Preaching
Liberating Constraining
How well our relationships evolve; depends upon how well we as individuals-and-communities cooperate in demonstrating the
above Healthy-Affirmations AND upon how well our communities accept, affirm and echo-back such healthy-demonstrations.
Healthy-Demonstrations by True-Lovers are Tragically-Often destroyed by Domineering-Communities of Domineering-Bullies and
Mobbing Mobsters; who do not welcome nor understand what True-Lovers are affirming or demonstrating in positive-kind-ways.
Our common dilemma is that Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters covet being in control, in charge and dominant in:
Wealth, Power, Prescriptions Proscriptions, Judging and Punishing - - - in Predominantly Alienative Ways. Those
Alienative-Ways undermine and destroy most kind kinds of Personal and Communal Integrities - - - exposing the lack of
integrity in the Myths that affirm the Redemptive-Powers of: VIOLENCE, COERCION, PRESCRIPTIONS, PROSCRIPTIONS, JUDGEMENTS,
AND ALIENATIVE-LAW-ENFORCEMENT-TECHNIQUES.