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True-Lovers and Domineering-Bullies --- and others --- differ in their definitions of which of
the following are tolerable --- as INDISCRIMINATE-REALITIES:

Murders     Rapes      Bullying     Mobbing    Stealing     Enmeshments   Torture     Wars

Wealth-Concentrations  Power-Concentrations    Rank-Ordering-of-People    Slavery-for-Profit

Excommunications       Profit-Takings          Taxation-Injustices        Sex-for-Sale/Profit 

Economic-Favoritism    Distributive-Injustice  Economics-Undermining-Communities'-Integrities

Generosity             Hospitality             Open-and-Honest-Dialogue   Reconciliations

Accurate-Descriptions  Objectivity             Reflexive-Relationships    Reflexive-Truths

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True-Lovers and Domineering-Bullies --- and others --- differ in their definitions of which of
the following are TOLERABLE --- as foci of examinations and as topics of conversations within
Open-and-Honest-Dialogues:

Assumptions   Risks     Attitudes    Vulnerabilities         Beliefs      Experiences

Prejudices    Biases    Alienations  Reflexive-Relationships Costs        Distributive-Justice

Rituals       Habits    Traditions   Excommunications        Shunnings    Retributive-Justice

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People who are trying to WIN their Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception are UN-LIKELY to

TOLERATE many of the above --- as foci-of-examinations and as topics-of-conversations within
Open-and-Honest-Dialogues  --- in Great-Contrast to the behaviors of True-Lovers and others who
seek to help-each-other to Mitigate-their-own-Alienative-Conflicts as Graciously-as-Possible.