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Course keys ****

True-Lovers strive together cooperatively to maintain Mutually-Desired-and-Appreciated levels-
and-kinds-of-BALANCE --- as regards their Joint-Senses    Regarding    Levels-and-Kinds of:

 (1) Vulnerability, Risks, Security, Safety, Health-Care, Integrity, Authenticity;
 (2) Costs-and-Benefits in Communal-Care regarding the above realities;
 (3) Letting-Go-of-Alienative-Defense-Behaviors,
 (4) Letting-Go-of-Desires-and-Hopes-for INVULNERABILITY,
 (5) Letting-Go-of-Desires-and-Hopes-for DOMINANCE AND/OR CONTROL,
 (6) Creative/Integrative Cooperation/Colaboration,
 (7) Personal/Communal Integrations/Integrities,
 (8) Sustainable and Flexible-Endurance in a Changing-Environment,
 (9) Humane Limits, Limitations and Possible/Impossible Transcendence,
(10) Modesty, Humility and Healthy-Self-Confidence;
(11) Healthy Expectations, Appreciation, and Thanksgiving;
(12) Predictability, Reliability and Creativity;
(13) Tolerance and Inclusivity.

True-Lovers are NOT focused in any Mutually-Exclusive-Ways upon any SUPERIOR WAYS/FORMS of:

Technologies          Concentrations    Powers               Wealth            Controls          

Domination            Coalitions        Formalities          Conformity        Proprieties

Rules                 Laws              Regulations          Hierarchies       Rewards

Punishments           Honors            Excommunications     Exclusivity       Shunnings

Banishments           Violence          Coercion             Regulations       Prisons

True-Lovers ARE focused upon helping others to Mitigate-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts and their
own alienations which are rooted in Many-Echoes of Past-Alienative-Conflicts NOT-YET-MITIGATED.