Participants in relationships (and observers of such relationships) have differing tendencies to
move:
1. Quickly-or-Slowly;
2. Toward-or-Away-From;
3. Dichotomous-or-Integrative;
4. Prejudices/Biases-or-Interpretations-of-evidence;
5. Patterns-of-Judgements-and/or-Unilateral-Actions.
In the above, Tendencies-and-Paces greatly influence the probabilities of:
Augmentations-Of and/or Mitigations-Of
Alienative-Conflicts and/or Healthy-Conflicts,
The above tendencies and their paces need to be considered and their interactions understood and
responded to --- in gracious ways ---- to help people to Mitigate-their-own-Alienative-Conflicts;
to Mitigate-their-own-Disintegrative-Consequences; associated with their-own-Alienative-Conflicts.
It is dangerous for us to be Compulsively-Preoccupied with any-very-few and/or isolated possible
foci -- for Integrative-Considerations of our interactions/relationships --- in the absence of any
Truly-Deliberative-and-Reflexive Systems-Analyses; of our own Alienative-Conflicts and/or of other
Peoples'-Alienative-Conflicts --- into which we may foolishly and tragically intrude in tragically-
Unilateral-Ways - - - - - for our own Alienated-Reasons.