Course Keys ****
How can we maintain a balance between diverse possible roles we may try to play in helping others
to Mitigate-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts?

1. Learning to describe the Different-Perspectives of the Different-People participating-within
and/or affected by an Alienative-Conflict --- with:
a. Their basic humane-needs, lacks, desires and wants.
b. Their different approaches to their own alienative-conflicts.
c. Their opponents' basic humane-needs, lacks, desires and wants.
d. Their opponents' different approaches to their own alienative-conflicts.
e. How Bi-Polar and/or Multi-Polar their Own-Alienative-Conflicts are, perhaps overlapping.
2. Studying scholarly retrospective, theoretical, poetic, musical, and other reports of
relevant Alienative-Conflicts in:
a. Professional-Papers in formal journal reports.
b. Scientific-Research-Papers,
c. Major books and encyclopedia,
d. Popular magazines and articles,
e. Volunteered web media and other communications.
3. As an Observer/Activist/Leader in community initiatives.
4. As a learning assistant to an Observer/Activist/Leader in community initiatives.
5. Attempting to Control: Outcomes, Appearances, Decisions, Writings.
6. As an exposer of: corruption, crimes, pretentions, domination, controllers, etc.
7. As a reconciler of alienative peoples.
8. As a formal mediator between conflicted peoples.
9. As an intervener in violent conflicts.
10. In passing new legislation to control future Alieinative-Conflicts.

To be graciously helpful in helping others to Mitigate-their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts --- we need
to develop open and honest communal consensuses regarding Gracious-Standards for judging how
helpful diverse-people-have-been in their efforts to facilitate other-people's own efforts to
Mitigate-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts. Those consensuses may include both informal and non-
formal consensuses --- each playing different roles after they have been formed and made known ---
so that diverse people can make informed judgments about how well our leaders have helped us to
fulfill our own: integrative-potentials in Mitigating-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts.

Beware of being preoccupied with our own: appearances, self-esteem, pride, guilt, shame, blame,
and other Ego-Centric-Perspectives of ourselves and each other! Those are often not reliable
guides for anybody to follow! Be-Aware and Beware!