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  %ANTITHETICAL STANDARDS LIFE STYLES VIRTUES VICES 080714
%GOALS CONCEPTIONS HEAVEN HELL SALVATION SUCCESS IT 080714
%DEFINITIONS PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS TABOOS GOD 080714
%CONTRADICTIONS CONFLICTS CONTENTION DEMAND COMMAND 080714

Domineering-Bullies and True-Lovers have Antithetical; i.e.
Mutually-Exclusive:

STANDARDS-FOR-MEASURING-SUCCESS,
CONCEPTIONS-OF-COOPERATION,
VIEWS-OF-INVULNERABILITY,
PREREQUISITES-TO-SUCCESS,
CONCEPTIONS-OF-INTEGRITY,
CONCEPTIONS-OF-SECURITY,
CONCEPTIONS-OF-SUCCESS,
DOMAINS-OF-CONCERN,
CONCEPTIONS-OF-GOOD,
CONCEPTIONS-OF-EVIL,
ESSENTIAL-BEHAVIORS,
GROUNDS-FOR-TRUST,
PROHIBITIONS,
PRIORITIES,
DOCTRINES,
ANXIETIES,
MISSIONS,
VIRTUES,
VICES,
FEARS.

Given  the  above contrasts:  when words, phrases   and/or
statements  are  ambiguous  in  meanings; different people
often   perceive  them  as  having  different  and   maybe
antithetical meanings and/or implications; e.g.  regarding
at least words such as:

Dilemmas,
Problems,
Conflicts,
Resolutions,
Solutions,
Honorable,
Proper,
Respectable,
Tolerable,
Required,
Prescribed,
Proscribed,
Taboos,
Guilt,
Innocence,
Complicit,
Ambiguous,
Certain, etc.

Neither     People-nor-Communities    can     Truly-Embody
Antithetical   Realities  in  any  well  integrated   way.
Attempts to do so lead to Alienations and Disintegrations.

The Dilemma of Domineering-Bullies is that each of them is
in competition with each  other  Domineering-Bully;   even
within Coalitions-of-Domineering-Bullies.   Bullies cannot
truly   cooperate   with  each  other  to  fulfill   their
conflicting wants and desires!     Bullies can NOT fulfill
their  conflicting  missions;   since their  missions  are
ultimately  antithetical  to each other  and  because  the
resources available to them in Space-Ship-Earth are finite
in  the face of the long enduring  exponential  growth  of
humans --- in both numbers and in per-person demands.

The   Advantage  which  True-Lovers  have  is  that  their
missions entail the virtues which are the foundations  for
cooperation  ---   so all True-Lovers  can  fulfill  their
missions by Being-Together in the Ways of Shalom.

      Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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