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 %HOW WHY ALIENATION COSTS MORE THAN RECONCILIATION 080708
  %OF DOMINEERING BULLIES TRUE LOVERS INNOCENT POOR 080708

Assessing the Net-Costs-of-Alienation, as compared to Net-
Gains-of-Reconciliation/Fellowship  ---    is  a  key   to
recognizing  the differences between  the Virtues-of-True-
Lovers and the Vices-of-Domineering Bullies.

The  Vices-of-Domineering-Bullies  in the long term  bring
with them Great-Net-Costs to the Whole-Community ---   and
small net-gains to relatively few people.

The   Wise-and-Prudent-Risks-which-True-Lovers  accept  as
essential to the Integrity of  Individuals-and-Communities
carry with  them  relatively Low-Long-Term-Real-Net-Costs;
compared to the REAL-and-GREAT  Long-Term-Net-Costs to all
individuals and communities  ---   due  to the Alienative-
Behaviors  of Domineering-Bullies who are trying to  avoid
all costs to themselves as isolated individuals.

In the above considerations we need to seek to understand,
clarify, describe and be in Open-and-Honest-Dialogue about
the   HOW-and-WHY   of  the  Net-Long-Term-Costs  to  most
Individuals-and-Communities due to Domineering-Bullies' --
Real-Vices-and-False-Virtues.      Whenever   people   are
playing  collusive games of mutual-self-deception ---  few
"things" are what they seem to be.  Be-Aware and Beware!

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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