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%ESSENTIAL FOUNDATION PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITIES 080705
  %HELPFULLY GRACIOUSLY FACILITATE MITIGATIONS EVIL 080705
%DYSFUNCTIONAL PERSONAL COMMUNAL RELATIONSHIPS GOOD 080705

To  helpfully and graciously facilitate the Mitigation-of:

Alienations,  Conflicts, Violence,   etc., it is essential
that those  participating   in the Conflict-Mitigation ---
engage  in Open-and-Honest-Dialogue ABOUT   Their-Own  and
Other-People's  Involvements/Complicity  in  both Healthy-
and-Unhealthy forms of Bonding/Violence --- WITHIN:

   a.  Sharing-Meals-Together,
   b.  Telling-their-Personal-Stories,
   c.  Sharing-their-Perceptions of Virtues/Vices,
   d.  Sharing-their Money-and-Other-forms-of-Wealth,
   e.  Extending-Hospitality-and-Other-forms-of-Welcome,
   f.  Involvements in Addictive/Codependent-Relationships
   g.  Liberating-and-Imprisoning -- Intimacies/Sexuality,
   h.  Revealing Tragically-Simplistic-Idealism/Virtues,
   i.  Exposing Tragic-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Dec.
   j.  Revealing whatever is Tragically Absent/Missing,
   k.  Their own and other people's Most-Basic-Needs,
   l.  Their own and other people's Most-Basic-Rights,
   m.  False/Misleading:  Conceptions-and-Representations,
   n.  Creative, Destructive and Integrative Behaviors,
   o.  Letting-Go of Alienative-Behaviors/Responses,
   p.  Clinging-To Alienative-Behaviors/Responses.
   q.  Being-Together in Many-Gracious Ways-of-Shalom.
   r.  Discerning what we can and/or cannot Control.
   s.  Discerning what we can and/or cannot Influence.
   t.  Discerning what we can and/or cannot Change.
   u.  Discerning what we can and/or cannot Let-Go.

       Bonding pertains to coming together in integrations

       Violence pertains to the violation of integrities.

       Decide yourself with others what you most desire.

       Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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