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   %DOMINATING FEARS EXPOSURE HONESTY ABOUT CONTROL 080703
   %THOUGHTS FEELINGS EMOTIONS DESIRES HOPES ASPIRE 080703
    %VULNERABILITY WEAKNESS UNPREDICTABLE IGNORANCE 080703

Because of  Domineering-Bullies' dedications to  being  in
control and to concentrating  power  and  wealth; they are
Dominated-by-their-Fears  of  Exposures  of,  and Honesty-
About:

 1.  Whatever   is   Essentially-Uncontrollable-by-others;
e.g.,  people's:  thoughts, feelings,  emotions,  desires,
hopes, aspirations,  vulnerabilities,  weaknesses,  risks,
anger, resentments, etc.

 2.  Unpredictable-Developments ---  as  in  Chaos-Theory,
Alienations,       Complex-Relationships,    Large-Groups-
Relationships,   Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception,
Addictions, and Codependent-Supporters of Addictions.

 3.  The Net-Costs of: False-Certainty,  Arrogance,  Self-
Righteousness and Alienative-Behaviors.

 4.  Whatever  realities  are being denied  in  Collusive-
Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception; such as:  Human-Mortality,
Human-Limitations,    Earth's-Finitude,     Limited-Fuels,
Global-Warming,     Melting-Ice,    Heating-Rising-Oceans,
Exponential-Growth, Consequences-of-Dishonesty, Unhealthy-
Sexuality,   Dysfunctional-Personal-Relationships,   What-
realities-can-be-Evil, etc.

 5.  The   fact  that  Domineering-Bullies  cannot   With-
Integrity   maintain  their   Paradigm-for-Success   while
admitting how Essential-to-Personal-and-Communal-Integrity
Open-and-Honest-Dialogue  is  within   Healthy-Intimacies;
including   within   Healthy-Sexual-Relationships.     For
Domineering-Bullies the latter entail unacceptable  levels
of the risk of  having  to  acknowledge Bullies'  lacks of
Authenticity and Integrity.   They dare not ever get Much-
Involved with True-Lovers!

 6.  The  fact  that   Domineering-Bullies  cannot   With-
Integrity Unilaterally-Control  the Inevitable-Risks which
exist    within   occasions   of    True:     Cooperation,
Collaborations,   Friendships,   Intimacies  and  Healthy-
Sexual-Relationships.

 7.  The  fact that Religious-Leaders,  Theologians,   and
God-Talkers cannot Predicate/Maintain the Existence of any
Transcendent-God and/or  Heaven which Impinges upon humans
---   but  Upon-Which Humans-CANNOT-Impinge  in  Mutually-
Satisfactory ways.

 8.  The   fact   that  Far-Too-Often   Religious-Leaders,
Theologians  and God-Talkers have been Domineering-Bullies
and/or dominated by Domineering-Bullies;  and so they have
not been: Authentic, Honest, Integrators or True-Lovers.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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