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%STRANGERS OUTSIDERS FOREIGNERS HELP COMMUNITY LOVE 080626
%TRUE LOVER GRACIOUSLY MITIGATE COMMUNITY CONFLICTS 080626
   %SINCERE SENSITIVE PERSPECTIVES EMPATHY SYMPATHY 080626

It is not enough for would-be conflict-MITIGATORS to  have
good  intentions  and to be sincere.   It is essential for
them  to be sensitive to the fact that  no person will  be
able to help a  community  graciously   and truly MITIGATE
conflicts within their community IF:

 1.  They are strangers to the community, or are perceived
to be strangers by members of their community.

 2.  Their Perspectives  are  significantly different from
the Perspectives of the members of their community; or are
perceived  by   members   of  their   community   to  have
significantly different Perspectives.

 3.  There are discernible  ideological differences and/or
conflicts ---   between the members of the  community  and
those who would  like  to  help MITIGATE  conflicts within
their community.

 4.  There   are   significant   ABSENCES   of   Signs-of-
Commonalty-Empathy-Sympathy  between  members   of  their
community and the outsider who seeks to help the community
MITIGATE conflicts within their community.

 5,  There   are  significant  differences   between   the
languages,  educations,  skills,  wealth and powers of the
members  of  their community ---  and of the  outsider who
seeks  to  help  the community MITIGATE  conflicts  within
their community.

 6.  The  outsider has not been invited by members of  the
community at their own initiative --- to help them work to
MITIGATE conflicts within their community.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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