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 %ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT EVIL RELATIONSHIPS ABSENT 080611
  % ABSENCE OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE PRESENCE REFLEXIVE 080611
  %REALITIES DESIRES HOPES EXPECTATIONS NEEDS WANTS 080611
%EMOTIONS EMPATHY SYMPATHY FEELINGS FRUSTRATIONS ID 080611
%DISAPPOINTMENTS FEARS ANXIETIES ANGER COERCION GOD 080611
%VIOLENCE NON-VIOLENT RESISTANCE PROSCRIPTION TABOO 080611
 %PRESCRIPTION TABOO EXCLUSIVE EXCOMMUNICATION SHUN 080611

Alienation,  Estrangement, and Evil-Relationships are each
characterized  by the ABSENCE-of-OPEN-AND-HONEST  DIALOGUE
about  the presence of  Reflexive-Personal-Realities  such
as:

 1.  Desires, Hopes, Expectations, Needs, Wants;

 2.  Emotions, Empathy, Sympathy, Feelings, Pleasures;

 3.  Frustrations,  Disappointments,   Fears,   Anxieties,
Anger;

 4.  Coercion, Demands, Commands, Violence, Proscriptions,
Prescriptions;

 5.  Taboos,   Exclusivity,   Excommunications,  Shunning,
Rejections, etc.

The  above  text  does NOT point to  primarily  Objective-
Scientific-Realities  which  are  in the  same  realms  as
OBJECTS  and  OBJECTIVE-Relationships  among   interacting
OBJECTS.

There  are inevitable REFLEXIVE-RISKS entailed in engaging
in   OPEN-AND-HONEST  DIALOGUE  which  focuses  upon   the
presence of Reflexive-Personal-Realities --- such as those
realities pointed to in the above text;  i.e.,  reflexive-
realities  present within  Intimate-Personal-Relationships
which  entail  OPEN-AND-HONEST-DIALOGUE among  True-Lovers
who  understand and respond in the  Many-Gracious-Ways-of-
Shalom ---   to  the TWO  great  commandments to Love-God-
Transcendent and Love-Neighbors-Present.

Domineering-Bullies attempt to achieve Reflexive-Personal-
Security by avoiding OPEN-AND-HONEST-DIALOGUE.

Domineering-Bullies    try    to    achieve     Reflexive-
Invulnerability which is viewed as the Essence-of-Security.

Domineering-Bullies  create  the  Reflexive-Realities  of:
Alienation,  Estrangement and Evil-Relationships  ---which
are  each characterized by the ABSENCE-of-OPEN-AND-HONEST-
DIALOGUE  about  the above  mentioned  Reflexive-Personal-
Realities.

The  above  texts point toward reflexive  realities  which
together form alienative feed-back-loops.

Those  feed-back-loops are not perceived clearly   by  the
Domineering-Bullies who are trapped in playing  Collusive-
Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.

Those   Dishonest-Games   are  focused  upon  denying  the
presence  of  the elements of  the  alienative  feed-back-
loops.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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