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 %ULTIMATE CONFLICTS CONCERNS CONFLICTS DOMINEERING 080602
%BULLIES TABOO PAIRS ACROSS MANDATORY DIVISION LINE 080602
%RACES RELIGIONS TRIBES NATIONS ECONOMIC STATUS SEX 080602
   %SEXUAL LIFE STYLES MARRIAGES PUBLIC OPEN HONEST 080602
%LARGE SMALL ISOLATED GROUPS MIXTURES DIVISIONS GOD 080602
%COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION DEFEAT OTHER 080602
 %WIN LOSER DEFEAT WINNERS UNILATERAL SECURITY SAFE 080602

The  following numbered realities are each TABOO to  Loyal-
Supporters   of   The-Domination-Systems   of   Domineering
Bullies:

 1.  Secret  "Open-and-Honest-Dialogue" of Isolated-Couples
in Taboo-Pairings  Across-Mandatory-Division-Lines BETWEEN:
(a)  Races,  (b) Religions, (c) Tribes,  (d)  Nations,  (e)
Economic-Status, etc.

 2.  "Public"      Open-and-Honest-Dialogue  within  Small-
Isolated-Groups  ---   Ignoring  Taboos  About-Mixtures  of
people who are Violating-Mandatory-Division-Lines --  noted
just above.

 3.  Increasing  the  sizes  of  the  Small-Isolated-Groups
noted  above ---  for doing so always increases the dangers
inherent  in  such  Taboo-Activities ---  which  are  Taboo
because   the  traitors'   activities  will  undermine  the
following Alienative-Essentials of Our-Domination-Systems:

     a.  Winning-All of Our Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-
         Deception.

     b.  Defeating All-Other Domineering-Bullies.

     c.  Exposing the Weaknesses of All True-Lovers.

     d.  Exposing  the vulnerabilities of All  traitors  to
         our cause.

     e.  The   unilateral  achievement  of   security   via
         invulnerability.

     f.  The  total avoidance of all of the hazards of  all
         intimacies.

     g.  The celebration of GOOD sacred techniques and
         technocrats.

We  need  to  be  clear  that  the  Ultimate-Concerns   of
Domineering-Bullies  are  in  conflict with  the  Ultimate-
Concerns of True-Lovers ---  and that there are no ways  in
which  those  conflicts can be reconciled with each  other;
for they are Ultimate-Concerns ---  and are Truly-Mutually-
Exclusive.

To   deal  creatively  and  helpfully  with  the   enduring
conflicts between True-Lovers and  Domineering-Bullies ---
we need to understand the nature of those conflicts and the
nature  of  the ultimate concerns of those people  who  are
wrapped up in those conflicts.   We cannot be helpful if we
ourselves  are tangled up in the collusive games  of mutual
self deception which circulate around us!  Think!  Be aware
and beware!

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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